When Does The Hurting Stop?

**Sammich** · 11-10-2008, 01:16 PM

is there a female jailhouse nearby?

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 11-10-2008, 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by Brett

The one thing I know is I will never want anyone to replace Leisa, No one will ever come close to her in my heart, even when/if I meet someone again and get serious with someone, Leisa's place in my heart will never be filled.

It sjust so hard to be alone.... I am not a guy who deals well with being alone, I am happiest when I have someone in my life to share things with, share experiences an dmake memories with, and its hard when you dont have someone to do that with

10 years with Leisa was the best 10 years of my life, now I hate my life

You are right, Brett. Leisa was one of a kind.

Like I told you on the phone last night before I got choked up and cried - it will never be the same... it takes time and LOTS of it. I walked away from love nearly 2 years ago, and still to this very day it hurts... similar situation, you know what I'm talking about.

Right now, you need friends and family that support and love you.. You need to keep your head up and remember that Leisa is with you forever and always.

**Brett** · 11-10-2008, 01:18 PM

I know boo, thats why I want to get more time with you all, It helps more than you know. And thank you for listening to my sad story last night baby, I appreciate it.

**Sammich** · 11-10-2008, 01:23 PM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

I walked away from love nearly 2 years ago, and still to this very day it hurts...

QFTMFT

I LEFT HER CUZ SHE WAS A SMOKER, LOVED HER, HER CHILD AND HER FAMILY, BUT I HAD TO MOVE ON..SORRY..CNT DEAL W/ A SMOKER

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 11-10-2008, 01:23 PM

Originally Posted by Brett

I know boo, thats why I want to get more time with you all, It helps more than you know. And thank you for listening to my sad story last night baby, I appreciate it.

You know I'm here for you anytime! Anything I can do for a friend, especially one of your stature... You know I love ya!

**Jbauer** · 11-10-2008, 02:09 PM

Originally Posted by hydroshutter

anyone who's "twice my size" and has a problem, send me a PM.

DAMN! and you STILL come off like a jerk.

**hydroshutter** · 11-10-2008, 02:13 PM

Originally Posted by Jbauer

DAMN! and you STILL come off like a jerk.

I'll be happy to explain things via PM, in hopes of not derailing this thread.

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 11-10-2008, 02:17 PM

Originally Posted by Jbauer

You are one stupid pissant fuck.

As for therapists, they are completley useless. Have some respect for yourself and spare yourself the trouble. Why would you take advice on life, from someone employed in a career that has the highest suicide rate? Those guys are a bunch of losers..seriously, who the heck makes a living out of hearing people BS and prescribing the same 3 pills all day and night.
My friend went to a mind. doc. once..he's never been the same after wards. little high school girl ditched him, he was gonna heal..till he went to a psychiatrist..then he started cutting himself and pondering suicide. Idiots tried to load him up full of pills.

Things will get better..they have too.

Although I do agree with your first thought of hydroshutter being a "stupid pissant fuck," I disagree with saying "mind docs" fuck up people's minds. Do some research on some of those pills they prescribe... They didn't go to school for 6-10 yrs to make people contemplate suicide - that's just your friend's cries for help.... He obviously needs more attention.

Also, I believe it's dentists that have the highest suicide rates.

**Brett** · 11-10-2008, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

You know I'm here for you anytime! Anything I can do for a friend, especially one of your stature... You know I love ya!

I know boo

**hydroshutter** · 11-10-2008, 02:23 PM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Although I do agree with your first thought of hydroshutter being a "stupid pissant fuck," I disagree with saying "mind docs" fuck up people's minds. Do some research on some of those pills they prescribe... They didn't go to school for 6-10 yrs to make people contemplate suicide - that's just your friend's cries for help.... He obviously needs more attention.

Also, I believe it's dentists that have the highest suicide rates.

but you agree with some of my points, and that's all that matters.

**Kevykev** · 11-10-2008, 03:00 PM

i got an idea...

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 11-10-2008, 03:01 PM

Originally Posted by hydroshutter

but you agree with some of my points, and that's all that matters.

No, I never said I agree with anything that you've said in this thread. I personally think that your post was crude and unacceptable... Sure, you are entitled to your own opinion, but when it comes to the loss of a family member/spouse - obviously, you are clueless....

Why don't you do yourself a favor, much like I just told you in a PM.. keep that shit off the boards.

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 11-10-2008, 03:03 PM

Originally Posted by Kevykev

i got an idea...

What up, KEV!!?? How was the honeymoon?

Oh yea - what's your idea?

**Brett** · 11-10-2008, 03:05 PM

We all need to do a wild wing meet tomorrow night

Its Tow For Tuesday

**Jbauer** · 11-10-2008, 04:23 PM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Do some research on some of those pills they prescribe... They didn't go to school for 6-10 yrs to make people contemplate suicide - that's just your friend's cries for help.... He obviously needs more attention.

Yea, my friend took it pretty hard. But the cutting, etc. didn't start until after he went to a doctor. Thats when things just straight plumeted south. He's all better now, but still he's just not the same guy. Those pills made him straight up suicidal and when he stopped (against doctors wishes, after i convinced him that those pills were making him coo coo) all the self abuse stopped along with them and he returned to normal. I've done a little bit of research on those pills, and a lot of them have side effects..like increased thoughts of suicide and self inflicted pain being one of them. I dunno...I just can't with a clear concience tell anyone to go to a psychiatrist.

**Kevykev** · 11-10-2008, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

What up, KEV!!?? How was the honeymoon?

Oh yea - what's your idea?

Don't worry about my idea, it's not appropriate

Honeymoon was Mind-Bottling

it was GRRRREAT, Beautiful Experience.

Thanks for asking y0!

**§treet_§peed** · 11-11-2008, 03:13 AM

Originally Posted by hydroshutter

No ill-will intended, sorry if I came off that way. It's good to have someone to talk to in person, rather than in "posts". I have buried some dear people to me; I'm human, just like you.

Secondly, anyone who's "twice my size" and has a problem, send me a PM.

you really must not read the other post. when did i say i was the one that would handle you? i didn't and as far as that pm you sent me goes... who cares?

**Brett** · 11-11-2008, 07:16 AM

Tiffany, Thanks babe for talking to me last night, I am so sorry I was such a mess last night, but you helped alot. I dont think I have cried as much as I did last night since the first week she passed.

I think today may be a better day, and atleast tonight is the Wild Wing Meet so that will keep me laughing tonight to

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 11-11-2008, 09:42 AM

Originally Posted by Brett

Tiffany, Thanks babe for talking to me last night, I am so sorry I was such a mess last night, but you helped alot. I dont think I have cried as much as I did last night since the first week she passed.

I think today may be a better day, and atleast tonight is the Wild Wing Meet so that will keep me laughing tonight to

Sure Brett.. Sorry, I ended up getting on the phone for like 2 hours! I figured you were asleep by the time I hung up...

But on a serious note.. I will let you have my babies!:idb:

**Brett** · 11-11-2008, 09:56 AM

... or atleast practice makin 'em!!

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