Quote Originally Posted by Echonova
All things heal with time, the one thing you can't speed up or slow down. But the pain will never completely go away. No one bounces back and resumes life as normal quickly after losing their spouse.
x2

couldn't have said it better myself. you will NEVER get over it, you learn to cope/deal with it. my mom told me, this is 17 years after my father died, that there is never a day she doesn't think about him. you just learn to deal homie.