brett i live in augusta and do not know yall but i can't imply how much your story has touched me and it kills me that i cant come bro !!! but if there is ANYTHING i can help with please dont be shy to ask ... id have to say " She made you a hell of a man " because i would be in the insane asylum (sp) right now . my deepest apologies once more to you and yours ! .. brett PM me your paypal addy and ill send a donation your way brother ! STAY STRONG !