there are a lot of us that have been around a very long time and I am personally very close to the both of them and Im sorry nothing seems important to me other than I just lost a really good friend that was on this board every damn day no matter what. im sorry take a step back even if you didnt know them and think about what is going on and how many ppl have been affected and are crying right now. think about her kids having to grow up without a mother.....
