
Originally Posted by
d-ninja
This thread is now about my personal life:
So recently I got back in touch with my ex. She was the best girlfriend I really loved her, and still do. Of course I wanna be with her but she says she's not ready for a relationship, and believes that if we get back together it'll be worse than it was all the other times we tried to get back together (this is the only girl I ever broke up with, and gave a **** about afterwards). The weird part is now, we play "friends" pretty well, but we sleep together. So its like friends with privileges. Its sorta frustrating because I know she's exclusive, but she doesn't wanna be in a relationship. Currently I'm exclusive, but I want to be in a relationship with her. My previous choices were to either, A) get over her completely, or B) get with her. Apparently I can't do B, so I'm forced to do A because I don't enjoy "waiting" for her to be ready to be a relationship. Should I stop sleeping with her, and keep her as a friend, and never think about a relationship with her again? Or should I keep her as a "friend with privileges" (though getting over her this way would be harder/longer) and start dating around. I enjoy having a girlfriend, but after her it just seems like there aren't any chicks I enjoy being around the same way I enjoy being around her.
What should I do sambish?