i think that a lot of things happen for a reason but i don't think anyone would get anywhere in life just sitting back saying that everything that is happening has its reason...

but yeah, overall i agree VERY strongly about the whole things happening for a reason...i've just WAAAAAAAAAAAAY to many crazy examples of shit happening where I would be asking why why why for months and years then all the sudden BOOM, i find out why...crazy the way life turns out...but yeah, i still like to use my best judgement and control any situations the best i know how. i trust shit happens but i'm not just going to let something happen and do nothing about it because of the trust.

some people take the "everything happens for a reason" shit to seriously and just get walked all over and fucked the fuck up...haha