Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
What if the female doesnt know? Then is she just the other woman???
Then she would be the woman he is cheating with.

If he was lying that he is not married, then she has no way of knowing... and wouldn't be a mistress by definition.......i.e. she would be dating him but would leave him if she found out he was dating someone else or married etc.

Now if she finds out he is married, and accepts the situation and is cool with being the side-cooch, then she is a mistress.

Usually the mistress knows damn well whether a man is married... but wants him anyways....like in the case of Oprah and Walters....