17/21 is fine, i think? i was 17 when i first started seeing my guy. and he's 21. but whatever you do, don't get her pregnant. she's legal enough to consent. but if her parents find out, her parents can get you for statutory rape. i think?

i'm not for sure. but 16 is the legal age if she consents. i don't think you can be more than 4 years older, or something like that. i'm not for sure.