if you arent ready to grow up, dont. if you are at all unsure about it dont bother with it. trying to act all grown up when you actually arent just results in you being unhappy and working your ass to death. some people need a huge house with a white picket fence and their 2.5 kids . its called keeping up with the jones's and its an american tradition. me personally... i dont need a big ass house with all the fancy this and that, i dont live my life for a house and a car that is average for the neighborhood.. maybe im wrong but i see you being alot like me...