I agree with everyone about eharmony.. I haven't used it (it's like $50 or somethin' a month) but it sounds pretty respectable.. I was bored one night and decided to fill out the free "personality profile" and man, they put alot of effort into that survey to figure out what kind of person you are... Takes about an hour or so to fill it all out. As for free sites... I've met a few girls off myspace.com... some are freaks, some are cool. Ya never know what your gonna get when you meet folks on the net lol.