Quote Originally Posted by redGT
again though if this was just a friend like one of my guy friends and she told me to stop hanging out with them your saying that i should do it? So i give up a friendship and then what? The other thing that pisses me off is that she has told me to do change this and that and the other and I have I mean where the hell do I draw the line guys?
Look at it from your gf's perspective: you are not only good, close friends with an ex, but you are friends with an ex that CHEATED on you.

No wonder she is concerned! How would you feel if your g/f was good friends with her ex that cheated on her? Something is weird about that, ya know? It's not normal.