There's too much estrogen in this damn thread now....
Damn...
There's too much estrogen in this damn thread now....
Damn...
It's also funny to me how women want equality this, equality that but
play the what I'd like to call ( you saw it here first, ladies and gentlemen) gender role card.
You want to be treated as equal but when it's convenient you play the
" I'm woman and can't do for myself" bit. Seriously? Get real.
You can't have both. You're either a woman that wants to be an equal and you suck it up and take everything that being an equal brings to you or you play the defenseless female that can't do for herself....
You sound bitter. YOU better get a prenup or not get married.Originally Posted by StuntallDay
I do for myself...AND MY MAN....because that's how I do. I want to be treated as an equal and when I make an agreement with my significant other, I expect that it will be respected that it was an agreement made between to adults. I also expect that when I get married it is understood that it is a partnership and sacrifices will have to be made on everyone's behalf...otherwise we should stay single. Marriage is about compromise to make things work between 2 people and their family. Everyone has a role to make things happen. That doesn't mean one or the other gets squat if it ends. It means that accumulated wealth is shared if the marriage ends. The law then decides what happens from there
You sound bitter. YOU better get a prenup or not get married.
I do for myself...AND MY MAN....because that's how I do. I want to be treated as an equal and when I make an agreement with my significant other, I expect that it will be respected that it was an agreement made between to adults. I also expect that when I get married it is understood that it is a partnership and sacrifices will have to be made on everyone's behalf...otherwise we should stay single. Marriage is about compromise to make things work between 2 people and their family. Everyone has a role to make things happen. That doesn't mean one or the other gets squat if it ends. It means that accumulated wealth is shared if the marriage ends. The law then decides what happens from there
I sound bitter because I have an opinion? Ok
That's where the old women operate on emotion and not logic thing I keep hearing about comes into play. Nice try.
You saying that is as educated as me saying that you're just out for half of your man's money if the s h i t hits the fan because you've done laundry.
Last edited by StuntallDay; 11-26-2007 at 03:12 PM.
No, you sound emotional that's why I said you sound bitter. I am having a nice debate and keeping it factual. Where is my emotional issue coming into play? I simply expressed my "opinion" on your bitterness. If I am wrong, then don't get offended. You know where you stand...as do IThus the reason I am not offended by what you are saying or emotional.
You are picking out the things you want to read. I never said I get 1/2 because I did laundry. There is a whole lot more to it than that. You should re-read if that's all you took out of what I said. I really have to go and don't have time to type it again right now.
This has been fun, but now I REALLY have to go. Hit you back when I get back on the computer
Lucky for you, this estrogen is going to watch Weeds with my girlfriends. So, you can have this thread all to yourself until I get back.
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