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    Default GUYS - If someone sleeps with your significant other...

    and the other guy knows that your girl is married to you or has been with you for over 3 years....( im saying 3 years, because there is a difference when your in love with someone and not - I figure if your with someone for 3 years you are probably in love with by then..i hope)

    What would you do?

    Would you go out and beat that guys ass and leave your girl?

    Would you drop your girl and just call it a day and find more a$$?

    What would you do?

    I was thinking about this deeply cause me and my wife have haters which we know of that are always talking ****...

    I have been married to my wife for 8 years now, we know everything about each other..

    I was thinking to myself...would it really be worth it if I find out she had slept with someone and they knew she was married. Would it be worth it for me to go beat his ass, or just to let it ride and drop your lady, or let your lady know and be like thats straight - I got something on you? What if you find out years later?

    Everything is cool in my relationship just to let EVERYONE know. Just so I dont start getting a 100 phone calls from everyone asking if everything is cool...LOL..

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    Double homicide. It's the only option.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheScotsman
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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.
    QFT

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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.



    It just depends really.. It might be worth it to work it out go to counseling
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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.




    then flee the to a non extradition country ftw...
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Yousef




    then flee the to a non extradition country ftw...


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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.

    Quoted for truth......

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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.
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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.
    I tend to agree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iloveboost
    Double homicide. It's the only option.
    you plan your revenge and come up with the ultimate ploy to make them kill each other, while you just sit back eatin your popcorn

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    if that happens after 3 years, thats 3 years well wasted.
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    leave her cheating ass
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    you honestly can't really put the blame on the other man, in my opinion it is completely the fault of the girl. if she hadn't given the guy the vibes that it was okay then it would have never happened, unless it was rape. the had to have been out looking for that kind of thing to happen, otherwise it wouldn't have. it just shows that the girl doesn't take her real relationship seriously.

    So all in all, no I wouldn't go beat his ass because the blame would rest on my girlfriend in my opinion. And she wouldn't be my girlfriend for much longer after that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by imbosile
    you honestly can't really put the blame on the other man, in my opinion it is completely the fault of the girl. if she hadn't given the guy the vibes that it was okay then it would have never happened, unless it was rape. the had to have been out looking for that kind of thing to happen, otherwise it wouldn't have. it just shows that the girl doesn't take her real relationship seriously.

    So all in all, no I wouldn't go beat his ass because the blame would rest on my girlfriend in my opinion. And she wouldn't be my girlfriend for much longer after that.
    If he about your relationship then he is part of the fault.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mastakey05
    If he about your relationship then he is part of the fault.

    well yeah i believe he would be somewhat at fault, but not enough to make me go kick his ass. if you're going to kick someones ass it should be the person that is supposedly in love with you and has shared so many things with you over 3 years. and since kicking a girls ass is the lowest of the low, i don't think anyone should get their ass beat haha. unless of course it was a really close friend of mine who did this, then that would be it.

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    I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by imbosile
    you honestly can't really put the blame on the other man, in my opinion it is completely the fault of the girl. if she hadn't given the guy the vibes that it was okay then it would have never happened, unless it was rape. the had to have been out looking for that kind of thing to happen, otherwise it wouldn't have. it just shows that the girl doesn't take her real relationship seriously.

    So all in all, no I wouldn't go beat his ass because the blame would rest on my girlfriend in my opinion. And she wouldn't be my girlfriend for much longer after that.
    exactly!!! i cant agree w/ you more.. it 100% the girls fault, the guy has a penis, what do you expect.. if a girl is wanting me to F her, im not going to care or worry about who she is w/ at the moment.. obviously things aren't going well in her relationship, or she broke up, or she often cheats.. i am not going to kill it and ask her how her and her bf or husband is doing? im going to think w/ my balls and complete the deed.. and obviously she cheats, so either me or another guy, but either way the bf or husdband gets screwed, and i rather it be me! :idb:


    Quote Originally Posted by honda_chick
    I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by honda_chick
    I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by honda_chick
    I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.
    That's beyond then just a "people make mistakes"....


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    Quote Originally Posted by honda_chick
    I know this is for guys, but you might like my opinion?.. If you love her, I say try to make it work. People make mistakes, (yeah, this is a HUGE deal) but just talk to her about it. Find out why she did it. She's gotta have a reason, she didn't do it just because. Don't kick anyone's a$$ though. It can only end you in jail or worse. So, stay away from that. And if you can leave your girl and go "find more a$$" then I'd really think about your relationship with her. IF that's an option for you, then you might not feel about her the way you think. And it might not even be worth working out. If it's meant to be, then it's meant to be. I hope everything works out. Good luck.
    LOL LOL LOL you kiddin me....she fuccks around, when she has a hubby, just to come back home and have the guy baby talk to her, "baby tell me...what is the problem...i am sure we can talk it out." U telling me if your guy screwed around with your friend....you would welcome him home and talk it out? I wouldn't even talk to her at that point....heck i'd change the locks on the door before she comes home and leave a not on the door "Me>You".

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    Would you drop your girl and just call it a day and find more a$$ <--- exactly what I would do

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    i know for sure that the dude would get his ass whooped...i dont know what she would receive..but high probability(99%) i would leave her cheatin arse..either that or stay w/ her and do my own lil escapades..but ima selfish/jealous dude so...i cant say what i would do w/ her unless it happened



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    Quote Originally Posted by phatboislim
    i know for sure that the dude would get his ass whooped...i dont know what she would receive..but high probability(99%) i would leave her cheatin arse..either that or stay w/ her and do my own lil escapades..but ima selfish/jealous dude so...i cant say what i would do w/ her unless it happened

    If you did the same thing she did then you're just lowering yourself to her level... but yeah i bet it would make you feel a hell of a lot better hahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by imbosile
    If you did the same thing she did then you're just lowering yourself to her level... but yeah i bet it would make you feel a hell of a lot better hahaha
    and thats why i would do it lol



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    Quote Originally Posted by imbosile
    If you did the same thing she did then you're just lowering yourself to her level... but yeah i bet it would make you feel a hell of a lot better hahaha

    first time reading threw this.

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    You see in this world there is a thing called RESPECT. It decided who is who. If a man KNEW I was married and slept with my wife, he is equally at fault. He has no respect for other men. I have NEVER went and talked to a guys girl, if I met a girl and asked if she had a boyfriend and she says yes, I kindly ease off and move on.

    I would dump the girl in a second. Not of anger, but because that would totally **** up your trust, what she wants, etc. She is at fault, the other guy is at fault, everyone is. If she did it once what would that mean? She doesnt love you? Mistake that will happen again? Who knows. Not to mention you want to have sex with your WIFE after she ****ED another guy!??! NO THANKS.

    I would not beat the guys ass. I would NEVER hit a girl. That is the immature thing to fight physically over ****. ***** boys start fights. More damage can be done mentally. If a **** wants to be a rude disrespectful ****, he will fail at life, and as I am moving on and living, he is stuck with no respect failing. Simple as that. As much as I would not want to hurt my wife, I am not the kind of guy to sit around and be walked on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simontibbett
    You thing in this world there is a thing called RESPECT. It decided who is who. If a man KNEW I was married and slept with my wife, he is equally at fault. He has no respect for other men. I have NEVER went and talked to a guys girl, if I met a girl and asked if she had a boyfriend and she says yes, I kindly ease off and move on.

    I would dump the girl in a second. Not of anger, but because that would totally **** up your trust, what she wants, etc. She is at fault, the other guy is at fault, everyone is. If she did it once what would that mean? She doesnt love you? Mistake that will happen again? Who knows. Not to mention you want to have sex with your WIFE after she ****ED another guy!??! NO THANKS.

    I would not beat the guys ass. I would NEVER hit a girl. That is the immature thing to fight physically over ****. ***** boys start fights. More damage can be done mentally. If a **** wants to be a rude disrespectful ****, he will fail at life, and as I am moving on and living, he is stuck with no respect failing. Simple as that. As much as I would not want to hurt my wife, I am not the kind of guy to sit around and be walked on.
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    3 years will be wasted. I'll just let it be and break off. It's not worth it to continue any further.

    Any violence would be stupid as my career and my life are worth more than that. I'd be sad, upset, but that's it. It's time to move on. There's many fishes in the sea and I'd find one that truly treasure my feeling.

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    Once a cheater always a cheater. Dump her and move on. No need to kick the guys ass and go to jail.

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    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.

    I second this motion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.
    for some odd ball reason this makes hella sense



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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.
    This is the way to go! At the bare minimum PIINTB hard, real hard then serve her with the papers. You will always feel great about knowing what you did to her one last time. I have a friend who did this very thing except they were not married just dating. We still laugh 2 years later about her going to the bathroom and crying after he tore up her pooper

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.
    you are my new hero.. i would of done it that way as well, but the way you recite it is just awesome! reps if i can..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.
    damn...do exactly what he said

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glides
    Hire a private investigator, document everything, then when you have it compiled and ready to serve to your lawyer, take her into the bedroom for one last lovemaking session. Try out every weird and sick thing you've heard. Captain Nemo her, do the Angry Pirate, wipe **** on her lip and **** her so hard in the ass that it bleeds. Then tell her you are sorry, you were overcome by a demon.

    Serve her papers the next day.
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    Not like you could blame them Atif. You're wife is hot.

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