My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 1/2 years.. and he lives with me.. he knows what time i get off of work and usually within an hour or so if he hasnt heard from me he is always calling to check in.. Ill call him if I havnt heard from him in a few hours.. its just common courtesy for your sig. other to let you know whats going on... I would agree with kev up there.. you two need to sit down and talk about whats going on.