Results 1 to 40 of 118

Thread: At home while the boyfriend's out partying

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    The coolest chick SM The Ren's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    In Lostsolvtec's bed!
    Age
    41
    Posts
    18,265
    Rep Power
    44

    Default

    My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 1/2 years.. and he lives with me.. he knows what time i get off of work and usually within an hour or so if he hasnt heard from me he is always calling to check in.. Ill call him if I havnt heard from him in a few hours.. its just common courtesy for your sig. other to let you know whats going on... I would agree with kev up there.. you two need to sit down and talk about whats going on.
    Val For President
    R.I.P. Our Dear Leisa..


    ASAP N.E. Chapter VP

    No more supra
    __________________________________________________ ________________________________________

    NIKON Squad member| NikonD40

  2. #2
    Senior Member Lizbiz101's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    somewhere lookin like :-D
    Age
    38
    Posts
    1,592
    Rep Power
    26

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by The Ren
    you two need to sit down and talk about whats going on.
    that would be nice....but it's hard when he hangs up on me and shuts off his phone!!!

    "You just handle the justice, and I'll handle the revenge myself."

  3. #3
    Who is John Galt? Echonova's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Earth
    Age
    96
    Posts
    26,989
    Rep Power
    84

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbiz101
    that would be nice....but it's hard when he hangs up on me and shuts off his phone!!!
    Sit down... face to face. Not over the phone, and not in the middle of the night while he out. Go kick his drunk and hung-over ass out of the bed right now. Then talk while he's weak and confused from the booze.

  4. #4
    The coolest chick SM The Ren's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    In Lostsolvtec's bed!
    Age
    41
    Posts
    18,265
    Rep Power
    44

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbiz101
    that would be nice....but it's hard when he hangs up on me and shuts off his phone!!!
    At that point you need to take a step back.. he obviously wants it on his terms and you need to get it back onto your terms.. ignore his calls for a bit... he will get annoyed and wonder why he cant get in touch with you.. Then once you decide to break tell him if he wants to talk to you.. You two need to sit down and talk and on YOUR terms not his..
    Val For President
    R.I.P. Our Dear Leisa..


    ASAP N.E. Chapter VP

    No more supra
    __________________________________________________ ________________________________________

    NIKON Squad member| NikonD40

  5. #5
    Senior Member Lizbiz101's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    somewhere lookin like :-D
    Age
    38
    Posts
    1,592
    Rep Power
    26

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by The Ren
    At that point you need to take a step back.. he obviously wants it on his terms and you need to get it back onto your terms.. ignore his calls for a bit... he will get annoyed and wonder why he cant get in touch with you.. Then once you decide to break tell him if he wants to talk to you.. You two need to sit down and talk and on YOUR terms not his..
    I doubt he's going to call me anytime soon. for the past 2 1/2 years, I've always been the one calling back, even when he hangs up on me. I tried hanging up on him once haha he didn't call me for 4 days. But I don't think I'm going to call him anyway....easier said than done tho...

    "You just handle the justice, and I'll handle the revenge myself."

  6. #6
    Who is John Galt? Echonova's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Earth
    Age
    96
    Posts
    26,989
    Rep Power
    84

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbiz101
    I doubt he's going to call me anytime soon. for the past 2 1/2 years, I've always been the one calling back, even when he hangs up on me. I tried hanging up on him once haha he didn't call me for 4 days. But I don't think I'm going to call him anyway....easier said than done tho...
    Ahhhhh, now we get to the meat of it. He does it, and has been doing it because you let him. It's easy not to call him. Take the home phone off the hook, turn cell phone off. You will be amazed how much easier life is.

  7. #7
    sammich is my bitch 1000cckiller's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    In sammich's house
    Age
    44
    Posts
    8,341
    Rep Power
    31

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Echonova
    Ahhhhh, now we get to the meat of it. He does it, and has been doing it because you let him. It's easy not to call him. Take the home phone off the hook, turn cell phone off. You will be amazed how much easier life is.
    or just call me and we can solve that problem.

  8. #8
    LEISA LOVE U GIRL! babygurl's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2003
    Location
    Dahlonega, GA
    Age
    42
    Posts
    10,576
    Rep Power
    34

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbiz101
    I doubt he's going to call me anytime soon. for the past 2 1/2 years, I've always been the one calling back, even when he hangs up on me. I tried hanging up on him once haha he didn't call me for 4 days. But I don't think I'm going to call him anyway....easier said than done tho...
    sounds like this *******, doesnt care enough about your feelings...

    Dont call him not worth it...I promise...

    And he treats you like ****....
    grand prix.....

  9. #9
    sammich is my bitch 1000cckiller's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    In sammich's house
    Age
    44
    Posts
    8,341
    Rep Power
    31

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by babygurl
    sounds like this *******, doesnt care enough about your feelings...

    Dont call him not worth it...I promise...

    And he treats you like ****....
    QTF

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
About us
ImportAtlanta is a community of gearheads and car enthusiasts. It does not matter what kind of car or bike you drive, IA is an open community for any gearhead. Whether you're looking for advice on a performance build or posting your wheels for sale, you're welcome here!
Announcement
Welcome back to ImportAtlanta. We are currently undergoing many changes, so please report any issues you encounter with the site using the 'Contact Us' button below. Thank you!