Hmm... I think that the option of the pill being available to those who are sexually active is to a point a wise choice. If morals were instilled in both a male or female, then they would never have to think about that option because sex wouldn't be an ideal for them to consider that option, but for those who unfortunately become sexually active at that young age, well... as much as it disturbs me to say it, but I would much rather still see sexually active middle schoolers having protected safe sex than to get pregnant

On a side note, props to you for having a very good parent to child communication - its not something you can find too often