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This seems like nothing more then yet another example of our society going down the toilet. I joke on the pedo bit, but in all seriousness no child of that age should be sexually active or even close. Presenting this pill as an escape from the responsibilities of sexual activities is only going to increase sexual activity in minors as well as give another incentive for true pedophiles to act on their desires.
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Originally Posted by Ran
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Originally Posted by kayfuNk
Well, does that mean we should allow children to watch porn, have sex, drink, drive, stick sharp objects into a light socket, work in a sweat shop, be sent off to marry their cousin, and generally view women as a lesser species? Because they do that in other countries too, you know. Does that make it right?
Everytime a child "rebels" it is certainly NOT the parents fault. We have to set boundaries and rules for our children. That is exactly what parenting is. It is NOT being your child's "friend". It is NOT buying your child's attention. It is NOT letting public opinion rule your home. It IS being a responsible role model by teaching your child what is right and wrong and how to decipher life's problems in a positive way. Everyone now a days thinks that if they are their child's "best friend" that their child will suddenly tell them everything and they will obey properly and never come home late and make all A's in school. BULL S_H_I_T!!!!! That is the quickest way to turn your child into a statistic if there ever was a way.
So parents letting children do whatever they want in order to squash their curiousity is no parenting at all. It is a chicken S_H_I_T way to parent and a lazy way to take care of your responsabilities. Parenting IS HARD, period. There is no short cut way to do it, and there shouldn't be. So everyone needs to stop trying to find a magic pill, just like we do for weight loss, and do the ONLY thing that has been tried and true for centuries.....BE A REAL PARENT or don't parent at all. It's hard work. If you're not ready for that, don't have children. Simple.
being pretty young myself, i had a BUNCH of friends who were sexually active at 12, as well as pregnant at 12.
the birth control is a good start, but it needs to broaden it's horizens and not just be the "only way is abstinence," but instead teach safer practice as well as explanations of myths and whatnots that young girls/guys gossip about.
like someone on here stated earlier, the more we say "you can' do it" the more the kids will want to do it and seek it out as a way to rebel against their parents.
but many parents are too busy to have a sit and chat with their kids these days, so they're learning what they see on tv, hear from their friends, and believe from magazines
Dude, that's not even half funny. Seriously, don't play like that with me....whoreslounge or not. I can take a joke, but that's not something I joke about.Quote:
Originally Posted by kayfuNk
i dont mean parental set boundaries or anything like that, i mean whats accepted as a whole country. i dont mean let kids drink and drive and all that nonesense, i mean if it were legal to drink at 12, you think kids would be doing it? hardly. 12 year olds hate the taste of beer/alcohol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900
PS...shouldnt this be in lifestyles..
So by that example, should we lower the age of consent to 12yr old? We already know they're having sex and since we're providing birth control for them, we might as well not condone an illegal act. Right?Quote:
Originally Posted by kayfuNk
Come on man, this is where discipline comes in. Where parenting comes into play. We can't seriously provide a cushion for everything.
It's protecting the stupid. Some parents just don't raise their kids right, other do, and it happens anyway. Atleast it will protect babies from being born into horrible situations, or from the rest of the taxpayers from having to pay for it. You're right it will not protect them from STD's, but 1 out of 2 isn't bad. I don't think it's going to encourage 11 yr olds TO have sex.
At the same time this is just voluntary. The ones that are having sex, are probably not smart enough to take it anyway even if it's free. Usually teens don't plan their first sexual experience. It just kind of happens, spur of the moment. It's not like they are thinking I'd like to f&*% that 8th grader next month, I better start taking the pill today.
I still like my idea of all males getting a vasectomy at the same time of circumcision. Then if you want to have a baby one day you have to meet the following requirements to have it reversed:
1. Be 18 or older
2. Be married
3. Pass a blood test (including a drug screening), credit check, and IQ test.
if i had an 11yr old daughter slutting around that b*tch would NEVER come out off her room id lock her in for years.
seriously wtf is a little 11yr old girl doing slutting around? this all falls to the parents not the kids. parents need to be more aware of what the hell their little fukks are doing. shat man put leashes on them or something...
yea but with younger kids its gona be like for them 'pshh no reprucussions then i dont see a reason why i can't have sex'Quote:
Originally Posted by civic95
Not necessarily. It goes back to the parents instilling abstinence and the knowledge that sex should NOT play a role in a child's life. If the parent does their job right AND the child heeds the parents words, then that box containing the pills would remain full. But children are naturally rebellious. Some ARE going to engage. The school is trying to offer, not an escape or an OK, but a form of protection so that these children don't **** up even more and have a child themselves. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ran
Jaime, I responded to your "where's QD" comment. My post is on the previous page. Later, QD.
^^ agreed - I never had sex till I was 19, but I can recall my sophmore year in english this one girl got pregnant, started waddling and wearing her boyfriends hoodies. She dropped out. About 2-3 years later I ran into her at a fair and she was all like " did you know I had a baby?!!!!" :lmao: Unfortunately, she wasn't too brilliant in both the head ( she was the epitomy of a blonde ) and in decision making
all it does is make them feel like they have permisson to do so.....still can get STDs