I fucked up

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Originally Posted by Dracc

Dracc, Gutling, MrsDirtyOc™+, TypeRPersonality, Maniac+, joecoolfreak+, Member31410, Stormhammer+, fooji, JackMaster+, phatboislim+, ryanh300

looks like most of my homies are here

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:D :yes:

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Originally Posted by Maniac

Well, damn. That sucks, but posting this doesn't make you a man. Moving on from your problems makes you a man. Not acting like a sad puppy makes you a man, showing her that you fucked up, and admiting that you fucked up makes you a man. Making a thread ON IA about this, doesn't make you a man.

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making the thread does not make me and man yes i know.. but she would not talk to me other wise.. i called and go straight to voice mail.. txt no answer or get an arguement start so i figure i would let her know like this..

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Originally Posted by MrsDirtyOc™

I dont know what to say......
I'd ask how u were doing but by reading the thread i already know......
besides all that how's ure day?

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hospital.. more heatache.. saddness.................. my day

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Originally Posted by Dracc

making the thread does not make me and man yes i know.. but she would not talk to me other wise.. i called and go straight to voice mail.. txt no answer or get an arguement start so i figure i would let her know like this..

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I said all that I could man, the rest is up to you.

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Originally Posted by Maniac

I said all that I could man, the rest is up to you.

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preciate it cuz... i need a drink or something

getting on here and posting up wasnt the right thing to do, if you wanted to man up and apologize to her, then do it and let it chill. if she wants to be with you she will talk to you. if not, she dont want to have to keep hearing about it. getting stressed and talking about wanting to hydroplane is just stupid, chill out and relax, dont worry about it. shit happens, if you think it sucks so bad you should not have done whatever you did to begin with.

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Originally Posted by Dracc

i put it in whores lounge for a reason.. this aint the time to fuck with me cuz.. i aint in the mood for dat shit

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lol@ trying to sound gansta

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Originally Posted by Gutling

getting on here and posting up wasnt the right thing to do, if you wanted to man up and apologize to her, then do it and let it chill. if she wants to be with you she will talk to you. if not, she dont want to have to keep hearing about it. getting stressed and talking about wanting to hydroplane is just stupid, chill out and relax, dont worry about it. shit happens, if you think it sucks so bad you should not have done whatever you did to begin with.

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Chillax

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Originally Posted by Gutling

getting on here and posting up wasnt the right thing to do, if you wanted to man up and apologize to her, then do it and let it chill. if she wants to be with you she will talk to you. if not, she dont want to have to keep hearing about it. getting stressed and talking about wanting to hydroplane is just stupid, chill out and relax, dont worry about it. shit happens, if you think it sucks so bad you should not have done whatever you did to begin with.

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wish it was that easy to begin with or i wouldn't have done it man... i mean shit i dont know.. i'm still young.. my best friend ( well one of them yes shes a she) said to just let her go.. it wasn't worth it in the 1st place if it came down to this and i'm starting to believe that.. even if i didnt do what i did ( lie) we might have still ended up here sooner or later.. she said that she didn't want me anyway so i'm like yeah maybe thats it.. as bad as i dont want to believe it.. its soaking in that maybe it is

In that case you really shouldnt worry about it. Aint nothing you can do now if she didnt want to be with you. She wasnt the one for you

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Originally Posted by Dracc

some ppl know whats going on some dont.. im man enough to say i was wrong and shit i fucked up... I was in a relationship with a woman here on IA if she wishes to make herself known then do so.. was probably the best relationship of my life.. yeah i fucked up... did i cheat NO.. but she ended it with me acouple days ago.. do i feel like shit.. I can't get no lower then what I already am is how I feel... to sum up alot of shit in to one thing..I lied to her.. about so dumb shit to impress her.. yeah i'm young that imaturity shit in me i dont know man.. i know we are over as a result of it.. do i love her.. hell yeah.. but its over.. moving on.. Maned up to say this cause i was at fault.. not to many people take fault in shit they do but I do.. yeah .. i'm out cuz


EDIT: this is all my fault and I've come to realize that.... if i could change anything i would but i can't

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props my *****..reps if i can

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Originally Posted by 3.5altman

props my *****..reps if i can

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preciate dat bruh

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In that case you really shouldnt worry about it. Aint nothing you can do now if she didnt want to be with you. She wasnt the one for you

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you right.. maybe thats the case man

Here's my :2cents: on this situation.......

You're young and u have ure entire life ahead of u......
Yeah u lied but lied for a reason........to get with a FEMALE......
If u feel u have to lie to someone to get them to like u that person isnt worth trying to be with......why waste ure time?......if she cant like u for U....the real u shouldnt want to be with her anyway......
Not putting this chick down or anything.....
Just stating facts.......

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Originally Posted by MrsDirtyOc™

Here's my :2cents: on this situation.......

You're young and u have ure entire life ahead of u......
Yeah u lied but lied for a reason........to get with a FEMALE......
If u feel u have to lie to someone to get them to like u that person isnt worth trying to be with......why waste ure time?......if she cant like u for U....the real u shouldnt want to be with her anyway......
Not putting this chick down or anything.....
Just stating facts.......

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yeah i lied to like impress her.. well shits crazy ya know... but what can i do.. she said what she had to say.. its over.. aint no more use.. made that clear saying that WE WILL NEVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN... i know she can read this.. wish you all the best.. i still love you but.... .. whatever

Think about the plusses, may not see them not but trust me there are. I was heartbroke for about a day last g/f i broke up with, then i started thinking about it. Man I am so much happier not with her, i dont have to listen to her bitching or complaining, didnt like my car because it was noisy and fast, didnt like hanging out with my friends, blah blah blah. had to always keep her happy, call her every 10 minutes, man, i was so fucking peaceful with her gone lol. And i just had to realize, the one meant for me, is not going to be a relationship like that. Its going to be perfect, both made for each other, get along with, respect, etc. its going to be so much better than what you had, its going to blow you away. just keep your head high, shes out there for you, the real you

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Originally Posted by Dracc

yeah i lied to like impress her.. well shits crazy ya know... but what can i do.. she said what she had to say.. its over.. aint no more use.. made that clear saying that WE WILL NEVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN... i know she can read this.. wish you all the best.. i still love you but.... .. whatever

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give Kelcey a big hug for me........

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Originally Posted by Gutling

Think about the plusses, may not see them not but trust me there are. I was heartbroke for about a day last g/f i broke up with, then i started thinking about it. Man I am so much happier not with her, i dont have to listen to her bitching or complaining, didnt like my car because it was noisy and fast, didnt like hanging out with my friends, blah blah blah. had to always keep her happy, call her every 10 minutes, man, i was so fucking peaceful with her gone lol. And i just had to realize, the one meant for me, is not going to be a relationship like that. Its going to be perfect, both made for each other, get along with, respect, etc. its going to be so much better than what you had, its going to blow you away. just keep your head high, shes out there for you, the real you

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somewhat true.. but she is in the car scene.. she didnt like my car ( lol damn i just laughed for the 1st time in a coulpe days) but she wasn't like that.. i didnt have to call every 10 minutes.. she didnt nag.. only when i was mad at something and would get quit or would want to leave to go clear my head.. she would just want to know.. i dont know man.. my whole entire life i had to fin for myself.. i never had anyone care for me ya know.. father was there but he was military and he never showed it.. didnt meet my mother till i was 14 and i really didnt meet her.. she called me for my birthday.. shit.. i dont know man.. seems like my life has been shit since birth ya dig.. but its all good.. not much longer to go

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Originally Posted by MrsDirtyOc™

give KelSey a big hug for me........

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she sleep but i will.. i think we gonna head back to SC sunday.. i'm really thinking about going back home

Reps to all i can .. i'm through with her.. i'm hearing to much shit she talking that she can't say to me ...

Dracc don't worry about her bro. You can't let a girl ruin your life. I did, and in retrospect it was pretty dumb. I am still in love with her, but I got over her, and moved on. Just keep your head up, and walk away from her. Looks man, I have a 12 pack here with your name on it, if you head to Athens.

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Originally Posted by 00_Rusty™

Dracc don't worry about her bro. You can't let a girl ruin your life. I did, and in retrospect it was pretty dumb. I am still in love with her, but I got over her, and moved on. Just keep your head up, and walk away from her. Looks man, I have a 12 pack here with your name on it, if you head to Athens.

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i might take that offer man.. i think i might make a trip to athens

What were you thinking. Your dumb, I'm glad she dumped you because that was plan stupid, who lies anymore

hey man shit happens... i was with my ex for 2.5 years i loved her to death we broke it off and it took a little bit to move on... but now im with some1 who makes me a lot happier... my advise to u is just let it go and look else ware you'll be a lot better off

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Originally Posted by fucksohc

hey man shit happens... i was with my ex for 2.5 years i loved her to death we broke it off and it took a little bit to move on... but now im with some1 who makes me a lot happier... my advise to u is just let it go and look else ware you'll be a lot better off

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He doesn't need anyone. He lied he deserves himself

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Originally Posted by KaineJuice37

He doesn't need anyone. He lied he deserves himself

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well every1 makes mistakes dude... don't be so harsh... im pretty sure you've lied your fair share of times to be with a girl...

So. But he got caught and he's dumb

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Originally Posted by KaineJuice37

So. But he got caught and he's dumb

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wow... your a dick... :slap:

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Originally Posted by fucksohc

wow... your a dick... :slap:

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Its not my fault he can't cover his tracks. He's probably dumb just like you

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Originally Posted by KaineJuice37

Its not my fault he can't cover his tracks. He's probably dumb just like you

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haha ur a fucking fag dude... grow a heart... he's human he made a mistake... theirs no sence in being a total dick when you've done the same thing... your nothing but a hippocratical fag...

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Originally Posted by KaineJuice37

What were you thinking. Your dumb, I'm glad she dumped you because that was plan stupid, who lies anymore

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Um... you do.

Well, that was alot of reading through some real shyt, & alot of hilariousness( Worm, you're cold LMAO). Okay I guess it's time to chime in. Now unfortunately Dracc I don't know how old you are, but judging by this, I'll assume not that old.

Now normally people will give you cliche's like " fish in the sea", or whatnot. I will bring you realness. The real deal here is faith, faith that the man above has better things planned for you. We all have encounters in our lives for a reason, our job is to meet them, face them, & learn what we're supposed to learn.

GOD puts people in our lives for a reason, so learn what you're supposed to learn, & grow. This post does show maturity, as it's hard for men to say " I'm wrong", it's just not in our vocabulary, but it should be.

So I'm going to say, man up, & enjoy your life, women really will always be there, but if you need one to define you, or make your life complete, then you need more hobbies. Yes we're all meant to be with someone, but at the same time, sometimes we're not always ready for what we think we're ready for.

Look at it this way, maybe this was GOD's way of letting you see how maybe you weren't as ready for that relationship as you thought, so grow. It'll hurt now, but thats what your freinds are for.

Get out, go bowling, & take your mind off it. Leaving GA will nto make you feel any better, because if you run now, you'll always be running, & sorry to tell you, you'll have women problems for as long as you deal with them. lol

It'll get no easier with em, for every new one will pressent new challaneges, & you have to be more mentaly tougher, to handle it, because women look to us for protection, insight, everything. So you falling to pieces isn't going to work.

Showing women signs of weakness( like lying to impress them) doesn't work, & do you really want to be with someone you had to lie to have a chance with? Not calling you fake, but in her eyes, thats what she'll see.

This is a good lesson tho, because lying to a woman is a tough ass thing to get around, because lies beget lies. Once you go down that road, mistrust becomes a serious issue.

Sorry for the long post, but you did ask for opinions, so I gave mine after reading all these pages. lol So tomorrow/today, walk outside, with your head high, because as bad as you think you feel now, think of all the people who can't do what you do.

When I feel bad, or I'm pissed aout some situation, I think " it could be worse", I could have more money, & not be able to walk. I could have a great car, & no arms to drive it. So always look at the bright side, because there's millions of people who wish they could be reading,typing,driving, walking, hell even scartching an itch.

You're just single.....Vegeta

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Originally Posted by VegetaRules

Well, that was alot of reading through some real shyt, & alot of hilariousness( Worm, you're cold LMAO). Okay I guess it's time to chime in. Now unfortunately Dracc I don't know how old you are, but judging by this, I'll assume not that old.

Now normally people will give you cliche's like " fish in the sea", or whatnot. I will bring you realness. The real deal here is faith, faith that the man above has better things planned for you. We all have encounters in our lives for a reason, our job is to meet them, face them, & learn what we're supposed to learn.

GOD puts people in our lives for a reason, so learn what you're supposed to learn, & grow. This post does show maturity, as it's hard for men to say " I'm wrong", it's just not in our vocabulary, but it should be.

So I'm going to say, man up, & enjoy your life, women really will always be there, but if you need one to define you, or make your life complete, then you need more hobbies. Yes we're all meant to be with someone, but at the same time, sometimes we're not always ready for what we think we're ready for.

Look at it this way, maybe this was GOD's way of letting you see how maybe you weren't as ready for that relationship as you thought, so grow. It'll hurt now, but thats what your freinds are for.

Get out, go bowling, & take your mind off it. Leaving GA will nto make you feel any better, because if you run now, you'll always be running, & sorry to tell you, you'll have women problems for as long as you deal with them. lol

It'll get no easier with em, for every new one will pressent new challaneges, & you have to be more mentaly tougher, to handle it, because women look to us for protection, insight, everything. So you falling to pieces isn't going to work.

Showing women signs of weakness( like lying to impress them) doesn't work, & do you really want to be with someone you had to lie to have a chance with? Not calling you fake, but in her eyes, thats what she'll see.

This is a good lesson tho, because lying to a woman is a tough ass thing to get around, because lies beget lies. Once you go down that road, mistrust becomes a serious issue.

Sorry for the long post, but you did ask for opinions, so I gave mine after reading all these pages. lol So tomorrow/today, walk outside, with your head high, because as bad as you think you feel now, think of all the people who can't do what you do.

When I feel bad, or I'm pissed aout some situation, I think " it could be worse", I could have more money, & not be able to walk. I could have a great car, & no arms to drive it. So always look at the bright side, because there's millions of people who wish they could be reading,typing,driving, walking, hell even scartching an itch.

You're just single.....Vegeta

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good advise...:goodjob:

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Originally Posted by fucksohc

good advise...:goodjob:

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... i feel like i just watched the jerry springer show...

it even had Vegeta's little "tidbits of advice" like jerry springer does at the end of every show.

:D

good luck with everything Dracc, when all this is done, things will be better than they were before you even met this girl.

-jonathan

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Originally Posted by VegetaRules

Well, that was alot of reading through some real shyt, & alot of hilariousness( Worm, you're cold LMAO). Okay I guess it's time to chime in. Now unfortunately Dracc I don't know how old you are, but judging by this, I'll assume not that old.

Now normally people will give you cliche's like " fish in the sea", or whatnot. I will bring you realness. The real deal here is faith, faith that the man above has better things planned for you. We all have encounters in our lives for a reason, our job is to meet them, face them, & learn what we're supposed to learn.

GOD puts people in our lives for a reason, so learn what you're supposed to learn, & grow. This post does show maturity, as it's hard for men to say " I'm wrong", it's just not in our vocabulary, but it should be.

So I'm going to say, man up, & enjoy your life, women really will always be there, but if you need one to define you, or make your life complete, then you need more hobbies. Yes we're all meant to be with someone, but at the same time, sometimes we're not always ready for what we think we're ready for.

Look at it this way, maybe this was GOD's way of letting you see how maybe you weren't as ready for that relationship as you thought, so grow. It'll hurt now, but thats what your freinds are for.

Get out, go bowling, & take your mind off it. Leaving GA will nto make you feel any better, because if you run now, you'll always be running, & sorry to tell you, you'll have women problems for as long as you deal with them. lol

It'll get no easier with em, for every new one will pressent new challaneges, & you have to be more mentaly tougher, to handle it, because women look to us for protection, insight, everything. So you falling to pieces isn't going to work.

Showing women signs of weakness( like lying to impress them) doesn't work, & do you really want to be with someone you had to lie to have a chance with? Not calling you fake, but in her eyes, thats what she'll see.

This is a good lesson tho, because lying to a woman is a tough ass thing to get around, because lies beget lies. Once you go down that road, mistrust becomes a serious issue.

Sorry for the long post, but you did ask for opinions, so I gave mine after reading all these pages. lol So tomorrow/today, walk outside, with your head high, because as bad as you think you feel now, think of all the people who can't do what you do.

When I feel bad, or I'm pissed aout some situation, I think " it could be worse", I could have more money, & not be able to walk. I could have a great car, & no arms to drive it. So always look at the bright side, because there's millions of people who wish they could be reading,typing,driving, walking, hell even scartching an itch.

You're just single.....Vegeta

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I dont know who you are and I've never seen you post up b4 but thanks... for real

haha... <34integras girl has a civic.

but she hates it.

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Originally Posted by EBP_EM1

haha... <34integras girl has a civic.

but she hates it.

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where did you see that lol.. and she should when she's <34integras and she drives a stock civic now.. i would be too lol

has a civic in her avatar.

i think she has <34crack.

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Originally Posted by EBP_EM1

has a civic in her avatar.

i think she has <34crack.

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hahahaha

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Originally Posted by Dracc

I dont know who you are and I've never seen you post up b4 but thanks... for real

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Hey man no problem. I do this on a daily basis everyday( I have alot of friends with relationship problems lol) so it's no prob. I usually post when I know something, or have a question I need answered.

I'm confident tho, you'll be fine, as I am glad that helped you. Keep your head high mayne....Andre':goodjob:

So did I miss it or what exactly was the lie?