Interracial Relationship Question

[justinxecushyn]

Is it still such a big deal? I mean damn. I think people need to really get over the whole "Stick with your kind" deal. This isn't the olden' days anymore. I went out last night, something that I rarely do, only to hear and see dirty looks from at least 4 or 5 different people there. In the area that I was sitting, there was another interracial couple and the entire night, these ignorant females were making comments about how wrong it is, how we are sell-outs, etc. To me love has no color. Why is it that people still have a problem with this shit man. I've dated a lot of different races and it seems like black and white were the only time that i ever encountered discrimination or ingorance. Who here dates interracially or is in a interracial relationship? Are y'all having any issues with society or ignorant people?

[Sammich]

im black...my fiancee is black...













































and indian lol. but yea truth..love has no color..screw retards

[bafbrian]

I have dated interracially and I am currently. People still do that because that is how they were raised. They believe something shouldn't mix, personally, I think like you, love has no color. You get more of this the farther south you go. It is not as bad up North where diversity is more welcomed.

[quickdodge®]

People still do that because that is how they were raised.

That's pretty far from the truth.

I have 4 children myself. My 22 year old is half black. My 15 year old is half Japanese. Later, QD.

[Tracy]

That's pretty far from the truth.

I have 4 children myself. My 22 year old is half black. My 15 year old is half Japanese. Later, QD.

Damn you are old as hell!

[Kevykev]

My wife is Mexician, I'm white.. But I will date any race, as long as you don't tell her.

My 22 year old is half black. .

Damn you generated offspring 22+yrs ago???























Is she cute?

pics?









no really, pm me...

[BobbyFresco]

That's pretty far from the truth.

I have 4 children myself. My 22 year old is half black. My 15 year old is half Japanese. Later, QD.

Wow QD!!
You have a 22 year old child?

Dang bro.....

[bafbrian]

That's pretty far from the truth.

I have 4 children myself. My 22 year old is half black. My 15 year old is half Japanese. Later, QD.

That's why I made additional posts to explain the first one.

[Kelly]

That's pretty far from the truth.

I have 4 children myself. My 22 year old is half black. My 15 year old is half Japanese. Later, QD.

Holy crap. I knew you were old but a 22 year old?! You could be my dad!



lol. So have you ever told her about IA? lol

[Smittie61984]

You get more of this the farther south you go. It is not as bad up North where diversity is more welcomed.

I disagree there. I've felt that there was more racial tension the farther north I go. I think here in the South you can say that we have gotten use to each other. While up north were you have less minorities they still collide.

For example one of my good friends is black. He goes to Georgia Southern and is friends with 2 of the most redneck tobacco chewing country boys that are from the middle of nowhere South Georgia. And in that gruop of friends consists a rich preppy frat boy and a white boy who wishes he was black and talks more gangster than Tupac. We all get along too.

Now we do make racial jokes at each other but it's like your friends laying a "Mamma" joke on you. You know they mean nothing by it but are wanting to yank your chain.

And by the way. Usually the ones who see a white girl with a black guy and make comments about them are usually the ones with the John Deere stickers on the back of their 2008 fully loaded Chevy pick up truck with $10k in lift mods and 10k in stereo equipment and try to be Redneck(Despite they live in Sandy Springs, Grayson, Alpharetta, Duluth, and drive a $50k truck) and talk about how they hate "The Nword". While they listen to Gangster rap and would jump Ciara if they had half a chance.

But I am completely opposed to any "Hate Crime" laws and feel they are wrong. I don't care how many times the white guy beating you yells the Nword at you. They should be in trouble for beating you down and not what they were thinking at the time.

[Tracy]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised. My dad is racist. I am in no way like that. In fact, I am very open minded. I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it.

[Kevykev]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised.

If you were raised in a prejudice family, sometimes that can actually increase your chances of dating 'outside" of your race - do to social effects.


A major factor that plays a role is- how exposed you are to other races. The deeper the relationship with another race of people the more likely you are to accept it.


I'm not talking about a work relationship either - a true friendship can easily change your perspective on a lot of things.


You can easily do yourself a disservice by limiting yourself to one race but of course, i have to say - go with whatever makes you happy.

[bafbrian]

If you were raised in a prejudice family, sometimes that can actually increase your chances of dating 'outside" of your race - do to social effects.


A major factor that plays a role is- how exposed you are to other races. The deeper the relationship with another race of people the more likely you are to accept it.


I'm not talking about a work relationship either - a true friendship can easily change your perspective on a lot of things.


You can easily do yourself a disservice by limiting yourself to one race but of course, i have to say - go with whatever makes you happy.

That is what I should have posted and made it clearer.

[bafbrian]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised. My dad is racist. I am in no way like that. In fact, I am very open minded. I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it.

I meant that in a matter of how you were raised and learned not only from your parents, but others and your surrounding that cause some people just to think and act that way.

I have lived with both sides of my family and I can tell there are some HUGE differences. Some good and some bad. I just learned and made the decisions for myself about people and society.

[95alty]

I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it.

HEHEHE!!! you should hook me up

Kevs dad is racist... he hates black people... dont know why

[BABY J]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised. My dad is racist. I am in no way like that. In fact, I am very open minded. I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it. I know one thing... that damn Baby J is a sexy mf'er, he could get it in a heartbeat:idb: .

Awww. Thanx kid. You're the best.

[quickdodge®]

Awww. Thanx kid. You're the best.

She meant a dead heartbeat. Everyone knows I'm the only black dude Tracy will "give it to." Later, QD.

[Tasuki_Civic]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised. My dad is racist. I am in no way like that. In fact, I am very open minded. I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it.

yea i agree with Tracy. my pop just started to get used to the fact that my sister and i date whomever we want. lol no matter if its the same sex or not. (Im sure he'll freak out if i turned lezi)

we were raised not to date outside our race lol and we do anyway. we never cared about race. Love has no boundaries, why limit them to one type of person.

i think what gets me the most about this topic is how one race will talk bad about another race (not knowing anything) and wont date a specific race at all either because of "he say she say", society, or one or 2 bad experiences. or all 3 together.

[00CelicaGT]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised. My dad is racist. I am in no way like that. In fact, I am very open minded. I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it.

wow i know ur dad is probably pissed, or doesnt know thatv they date black guys.






































are any of them single right now?

[The Ninja]

I disagree with the fact that it's all about how you were raised. My dad is racist. I am in no way like that. In fact, I am very open minded. I have 3 sisters and they all date only black. I haven't ever dated a black person, but I have no problems with it.

How does that make it not racist?


I couldn't give half-a-fuck who someone else dates and I date whatever chick I like. What I don't understand is why people give a fuck who other people date.

[Dracc]

I'm going through the same thing right now and it kinda bothers her because all the black girls look at her when i'm with her.. and i've been hit on while she was away like on the other side of a store of something...... but yeah i was raised to believe i better not bring a white girl home.... and thats for real lol. .... but I have nothing wrong with them.. hell i got more white friends now then anything lol.. and my girl is Puerto Rican.. and yeah i love her so what thats all that matters

[1000cckiller]

pussy, isnt black or white. So why complain about skin color. Date who ever you want,its a free country

[Tracy]

pussy, isnt black or white. So why complain about skin color. Date who ever you want,its a free country

Dick is though

[1000cckiller]

Dick is though

damn tracy dont paint that picture, in my head.

[Kevykev]

pussy, isnt black or white.

it had better not be!

[Tracy]

I used to hang out with pretty much all black people in middle school and high school. That's where I felt I fit in best. I didn't think it was a big deal until I moved to a country town my junior year and they all started calling me a ****** lover....it was just ironic that I never even dated a black person and they called me that. I do love them though. I usually relate better to them.

[BABY J]

I used to hang out with pretty much all black people in middle school and high school. That's where I felt I fit in best. I didn't think it was a big deal until I moved to a country town my junior year and they all started calling me a ****** lover....it was just ironic that I never even dated a black person and they called me that. I do love them though. I usually relate better to them.

Them huh? I get it... LOL. YOU F*CKIN RACIST ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



PS: I love you. Tell your sister to call me - LOL :idb:

[The Youngn]

if you're happy in the relationship that you're in, then who cares what other people think? i have been in relationships with other races and i couldn't care less what other people thought. Just make yourself and your other happy and ignore the other people. They'll learn to accept it sooner or later.

My parents were all about me being with another Vietnamese girl and kept pushing me to date Vietnamese girls only but they realized that i dated more other races. They accept it now and dont care what kind of girl i bring home.

[chinitoxamor]

if you're happy in the relationship that you're in, then who cares what other people think? i have been in relationships with other races and i couldn't care less what other people thought. Just make yourself and your other happy and ignore the other people. They'll learn to accept it sooner or later.

My parents were all about me being with another Vietnamese girl and kept pushing me to date Vietnamese girls only but they realized that i dated more other races. They accept it now and dont care what kind of girl i bring home.

sounds true about vietnamese family.. make you date inside race lol

my girlfriend is vietnamese and a quarter white and her family thinks

I'm korean when I'm really vietnamese and chinese

[AnthonyF]

i dont give a fuck. never dated a black girl. always wanted to though.

[Dracc]

i dont give a fuck. never dated a black girl. always wanted to though.

once you go black.. you never go back..... once you've been black.. you run for other car

[DeutscheBAG!]

once you go black.. you never go back..... once you've been black.. you run for other car

i thought it was once you go black,....
















you might get stabbed!

[VooDooXII]

i thought it was once you go black...

you might get stabbed!

Hey, once you go brown, you can't turn around!

[justinxecushyn]

Hey, once you go brown, you can't turn around!

i hear Browies are going to be the new latinas pretty soon.

[JDM onlyy]

Hey, once you go brown, you can't turn around!

Once you went Asian, you ain't changin...Lol

[Sledlude]

i am currently in an interracial relationship- im with the man of my dreams and race was never EVER an issue. come to think of it, i have never even dated inside my own race; not to say that i wouldnt though. it sounds wierd to some ppl but race is not EVEN a contributing factor to any relationships i build, platonic or romantic. i just dont understand people who "stick to their own". its fuckin 2007- if you cant mix it up a bit and associate with people from different backgrounds you are really missing out IMHO.

[quickdodge®]

i am currently in an interracial relationship- im with the man of my dreams and race was never EVER an issue.

And I, too, am so glad we found each other. Later, QD.

[Hulud]

this shit is why i hate the south, granted it can happen anywhere. just in the south its more prevelant.

who gives a fuck what color someone is

[Dirty Octopus™]

is that shit even legal?

[BB6dohcvtec]

I am currently in a interracial relationship have been my entire life for some reason me and white girls go together like peanut butter and jelly. I think i have dated in my race once and that lasted for all of freshman year of high school. There is no problem with it to me. My sister is mixed half white/black from my dads first marriage.