another thing that caused us to split is that she thought it was ok for her to go off to some dudes house and party with her g/f's and a bunch of dudes and get fucked up without me being there. and she was going to go to this party and a concert with me. not in the good way tho.. she knew what she was going to do.. but she didn't see anything wrong with it. and i asked what if went to a party with some girls and got fucked up without her and she said she would of been pissed