i work.Originally Posted by william_jeff
i work.
lol
hmmmmmmmm..... lol
what you trying to say
i bet you wouldn't step foot out of that charger
.... why step out when i could just push the throttle...
and i'm not trying to say anything but that i was busy at work.
LOL @ pun intended
fag
i'm at work too
but i don't work
not until after the sun goes down
back on topic....
marriage should not be asked for, begged for, used to fix a broken relationship, a reason to break off a relationship. a marriages only purpose is to bond a man and a woman together for the rest of their lives.... but as always, man has tainted something that is so meaning full.. and taken it for granted. it is more tradition these days than anything... and isn't taken as serious as it should be... most of america has it in their head that if it doesn't work out i'll just get a divorce and either lose half my stuff, or take half of the others....
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marriage is almost becoming a tradition like having children. no offense to those who have them, but i hear SOOOOO much these days that i want a child because i saw such and such child or whatever. it's fucking crazy if you ask me
BTW, props to people like Mark who really understand themselves and acknowledge that "marriage" is not for them right now. I'd much rather see a person that says that and acts like that, than to see someone marry for all the wrong reasons.
Props for people who are honest with themselves.
Marriage is not so much over-rated as misunderstood. People think that when you get married, everything will be perfect. If you get married too soon or for the wrong reasons...shit will go sour. Marriage should be the combination of two separate lives...it should be the joining of two people that feel that this person is someone they will be happy with forever.
It has to be more than good sex...and we have fun together...you have to know that come thick or thin this person will be there. You have to trust that they will only be with you. You have to both want the same things (kids, house...etc). There has to be mutual understanding that neither is better than the other. Both should have something to bring to the marriage in a financial way. Marriage is hard work and not to be taken lightly. This "all you need is love" bull-shit is far too common. Yeah, you love her now when she's hot and wants to fuck all teh time...but how about 20 years from now when she's had two kids and isn't so hot...and at the end of the day she wants to pass out and have nothing to do with you or your dick? You still gonna lover her then.
All I'm saying is that you have to respect it and not take it too lightly...or the shit may be the end of you...and all women are not crazy. I am very rational...Thanks.
***Steps off soapbox***
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:boobies: Are you asking if I have them? Yes...would a guy really say some shit like that?
ROFTLMAO.
Nice response.
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Thanks.You just liked the :boobies: ...
Well I must say I do enjoy a nice pair....
Care to take part in the study we are conducting to find the primary differences between parts in the female physique and how males react to each component of the body? Also as to what is prefered by different males and why?
-Sayajin
Im so JDM they dont even call me the GOD. They call me the Kamisama.
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Anywhere in this survey do I get to kick you in the balls to test their sensitivity...? If so...I'm game.
Not mine in particular as I need mine for further study and the advancement of the human race.Anywhere in this survey do I get to kick you in the balls to test their sensitivity...? If so...I'm game.
However I am sure that I can work something out with one of my associates to have your request met. As long as you meet his...
-Sayajin
Im so JDM they dont even call me the GOD. They call me the Kamisama.
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Smokin
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Something tells me that after being kicked in that balls his requests will involve pain coming my way...and while I'm always down for some hair pulling...getting punched in the jaw or kneed in the cunt don't sound so fun. I'll pass.Not mine in particular as I need mine for further study and the advancement of the human race.
However I am sure that I can work something out with one of my associates to have your request met. As long as you meet his...
-Sayajin
LOL.
Im sure we can work something out of a more "delicate and personal" sort.
-Sayajin
Im so JDM they dont even call me the GOD. They call me the Kamisama.
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overrated? hmmm not really? but i assume its worth it to those who love each other. i dont think you need a title and papers to know you love someone and your with them for life but what the hell make it official. i guess.
nah...I'll just kick you in the balls and be done with it...k?
Once again, this is in response to a subsequent PM I got. I'm long winded and PM box has a size limit.....
As many people have already stated, marriage is not just a rosy birds chirping sun shining proposition. There ARE going to be times when it gets rough, sometimes downright ugly. It happens. It's part of the package deal. Some relationships have it more than others, but ALL at some point or another are going to wonder if they've made the right decision to be with this other person.
IF your relationship ALREADY has doubts and turmoil, then moving in....much like having children....will only compound those issues. Sure, it may be very nice and rosy cool in the beginning, but those same issues you're having now WILL resurface sooner or later. Remember, if you don't RESOLVE the problem it will always come back in some form or another later regardless if you live together, are married, just BF/GF, just friends....whatever. It will ALWAYS come back to be dealt with again. Sometimes it's wise to let something simmer for a minute before you walk over to it and stir it though. In other words, sometimes right in the middle of a heated argument is probably NOT the best time to get on your soapbox and tell your significant other about ALL the faults you think they have that have been bothering you forever. BUT issues need to be RESOLVED and a common consensus needs to be reached EVENTUALLY. You either do it now or do it later, but you will have to do it. Moving in together is NOT the answer if you have serious doubts or issues with your partner because that safety barrier of "going home" and being alone to think about things when you get upset is no longer there. Now you have to stew over things TOGETHER. If you can't resolve the issues now when you CAN get away from each other to calm down and think rationally.....what do you think is going to happen when you're sharing a home and a bed???? It could get ugly.
With that said, I still think living together for a brief time just before taking the big step of marriage is a good litmus test for both of you to either realize this is a great thing you have or something that needs work. Either way, it is far better to realize you need work and make a decision vs going through the stigma of a divorce later on. Again, the caveat is that living together shouldn't be used as LONG term "test drive". I mean if you live with someone for 5 yrs and you still WANT to continue, why not make it official? What's the hold up? If there is a hold up, then maybe you shouldn't be together to begin with. There is no set time limit for someone to make up their mind about marriage, but there is a limit to someone's patience. I for one wouldn't feel all too comfortable with my partner if she couldn't make up her mind about marrying me or not.
Anyway, I hope this helps answer the question.
That is a very true. But all women and men dont think the same, so there in lies the problem. Because we all think so differently we react on feelings, Moving in with someone and marrying the takes big sacrifices on both parts mainly because your space is fixing to invaded by this other person. Also I have seen some couples that hate their partners love them the most. So I have to say in my opinion, I believe there can be a yes or no to this thread.Once again, this is in response to a subsequent PM I got. I'm long winded and PM box has a size limit.....
As many people have already stated, marriage is not just a rosy birds chirping sun shining proposition. There ARE going to be times when it gets rough, sometimes downright ugly. It happens. It's part of the package deal. Some relationships have it more than others, but ALL at some point or another are going to wonder if they've made the right decision to be with this other person.
IF your relationship ALREADY has doubts and turmoil, then moving in....much like having children....will only compound those issues. Sure, it may be very nice and rosy cool in the beginning, but those same issues you're having now WILL resurface sooner or later. Remember, if you don't RESOLVE the problem it will always come back in some form or another later regardless if you live together, are married, just BF/GF, just friends....whatever. It will ALWAYS come back to be dealt with again. Sometimes it's wise to let something simmer for a minute before you walk over to it and stir it though. In other words, sometimes right in the middle of a heated argument is probably NOT the best time to get on your soapbox and tell your significant other about ALL the faults you think they have that have been bothering you forever. BUT issues need to be RESOLVED and a common consensus needs to be reached EVENTUALLY. You either do it now or do it later, but you will have to do it. Moving in together is NOT the answer if you have serious doubts or issues with your partner because that safety barrier of "going home" and being alone to think about things when you get upset is no longer there. Now you have to stew over things TOGETHER. If you can't resolve the issues now when you CAN get away from each other to calm down and think rationally.....what do you think is going to happen when you're sharing a home and a bed???? It could get ugly.
With that said, I still think living together for a brief time just before taking the big step of marriage is a good litmus test for both of you to either realize this is a great thing you have or something that needs work. Either way, it is far better to realize you need work and make a decision vs going through the stigma of a divorce later on. Again, the caveat is that living together shouldn't be used as LONG term "test drive". I mean if you live with someone for 5 yrs and you still WANT to continue, why not make it official? What's the hold up? If there is a hold up, then maybe you shouldn't be together to begin with. There is no set time limit for someone to make up their mind about marriage, but there is a limit to someone's patience. I for one wouldn't feel all too comfortable with my partner if she couldn't make up her mind about marrying me or not.
Anyway, I hope this helps answer the question.
I couldn't agree more, Jaime. I am always puzzled by people who live together for 3, 4 or even 5 years and aren't married... why? I mean it's their life, they can do what they want, maybe marriage isn't a big deal to them but whatever. To me, if there is any doubt after a few years then maybe it's not the relationship you should be in. After a couple of years, it's either be sure this is the person you want to be with or stop wasting time. IMO, there is no sense in spending that much of your life with someone unless you know or really think they may be the one. Of course that doesn't mean to rush into it but to give it time, get to know the person, get past the honeymoon stage, have a few fights, learn each others flaws and then decide if this could be where you want to spend your life.
It seems like some people want to build a life together but still have the freedom to just walk away with no consequences if things get bad.... though some people seem to do that even if they ARE married and it's sad.
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I think I know what you're trying to say, but you may have worded it incorrectly.
If I invite you over for a cook-out, you're not "invading" my space....I invited you to come by, right? The same idea goes when you comingle your life with someone else. It should not be looked at as what "I'm losing" rather it should be looked at as "what I'm gaining". If your partner is someone that you feel crowds you or invades your space, then to be honest you really should not be with that person and you should get out NOW while you can.
All too often people have this notion that "he'll EVENTUALLY change to this.." or "she'll eventually CHANGE and do that WHEN we get married..."......Ummm, NO!!!! Change is something that an individual has to decide ON THEIR OWN. When someone "changes" due to someone else's pressures, they often times revert right back sooner or later to the same place they were. Why?, because it wasn't THEM who wanted the change.
So you have to look at things as a positive rather than a negative conotation. If you have it in your mind that this person is an "invader" then you will always have in the back of your mind that they are taking something AWAY from you.
There's so much worth in a marriage that I don't see how it can be considered overrated. Marriage has been shown to be a major factor in good mental and physical health. It calms the soul. For the most part, people do a lot less risky things when you have more to live for than just yourself. Married people take better care of themselves. Marriage has been shown to provide a safe haven and good moral upbringing for children. Children brought up in a married home are less likely to be brought up poor, uncivilized and irresponsible. A marriage provides for a good foundation for morals, responsibility, education and just plain life in general.
I don't see how living a longer, healthier, responsible, safer, life could be taken as overrated.
This is not to trash people that don't marry. And it does not apply to every human on Earth. Later, QD.
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yea i was on yahoo one day and they said that marriage maybe help for those who are suffer from depression. of course they brought out that COMMUNICATION, again, was necessary in order for the household to be happy.
marriage does/can bring out the best in people.
Amen!!!! +500 If I could.
Amen to that too!!!!
BTW, I didn't get home until late last night, hence the no call but I haven't forgotten.
Tis all good, James. Lolol. Later, QD.Amen to that too!!!!
BTW, I didn't get home until late last night, hence the no call but I haven't forgotten.
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yeah that is part of what I am saying.I think I know what you're trying to say, but you may have worded it incorrectly.
If I invite you over for a cook-out, you're not "invading" my space....I invited you to come by, right? The same idea goes when you comingle your life with someone else. It should not be looked at as what "I'm losing" rather it should be looked at as "what I'm gaining". If your partner is someone that you feel crowds you or invades your space, then to be honest you really should not be with that person and you should get out NOW while you can.
All too often people have this notion that "he'll EVENTUALLY change to this.." or "she'll eventually CHANGE and do that WHEN we get married..."......
So you have to look at things as a positive rather than a negative conotation. If you have it in your mind that this person is an "invader" then you will always have in the back of your mind that they are taking something AWAY from you.
marriage stopped being what it used to be once the divorce rate overtook the marriage rate...now who's ur buddy and who's the girl?
Once again, this is in response to a subsequent PM I got. I'm long winded and PM box has a size limit.....
As many people have already stated, marriage is not just a rosy birds chirping sun shining proposition. There ARE going to be times when it gets rough, sometimes downright ugly. It happens. It's part of the package deal. Some relationships have it more than others, but ALL at some point or another are going to wonder if they've made the right decision to be with this other person.
IF your relationship ALREADY has doubts and turmoil, then moving in....much like having children....will only compound those issues. Sure, it may be very nice and rosy cool in the beginning, but those same issues you're having now WILL resurface sooner or later. Remember, if you don't RESOLVE the problem it will always come back in some form or another later regardless if you live together, are married, just BF/GF, just friends....whatever. It will ALWAYS come back to be dealt with again. Sometimes it's wise to let something simmer for a minute before you walk over to it and stir it though. In other words, sometimes right in the middle of a heated argument is probably NOT the best time to get on your soapbox and tell your significant other about ALL the faults you think they have that have been bothering you forever. BUT issues need to be RESOLVED and a common consensus needs to be reached EVENTUALLY. You either do it now or do it later, but you will have to do it. Moving in together is NOT the answer if you have serious doubts or issues with your partner because that safety barrier of "going home" and being alone to think about things when you get upset is no longer there. Now you have to stew over things TOGETHER. If you can't resolve the issues now when you CAN get away from each other to calm down and think rationally.....what do you think is going to happen when you're sharing a home and a bed???? It could get ugly.
With that said, I still think living together for a brief time just before taking the big step of marriage is a good litmus test for both of you to either realize this is a great thing you have or something that needs work. Either way, it is far better to realize you need work and make a decision vs going through the stigma of a divorce later on. Again, the caveat is that living together shouldn't be used as LONG term "test drive". I mean if you live with someone for 5 yrs and you still WANT to continue, why not make it official? What's the hold up? If there is a hold up, then maybe you shouldn't be together to begin with. There is no set time limit for someone to make up their mind about marriage, but there is a limit to someone's patience. I for one wouldn't feel all too comfortable with my partner if she couldn't make up her mind about marrying me or not.
Anyway, I hope this helps answer the question.
Great post Jaime!!!
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^^^ Dumbass post of the thread. Later, QD.
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hahahahahaha you obviously didnt sign one!!!!
any real mother fucker would!! whos with me?
There you go. Now this thread was a good thread until idiocy started making it's way in. If you could go spread your disease in another thread and leave this alone. Later, QD.
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Im just stating my opinion you fuck. heres a lil something since you like changing my posts.
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