Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
You left out one HUGE other factor that probably matches communication in this position. Trust. Without trust, a good relationship will NOT be had. Later, QD.
yeah that is true. but i feel communication is first in the whole relationship, then comes trust (probably an opininated statement when it comes down to it, but that's my feelings). when you communicate, you talk about how you feel, your insecurities if you have them, what's going on with you, you feel what i'm saying? constant communication can and will nullify that whole insecurity bullshit. it has happened in my relationship, my fiancee and i had a SERIOUS issue, both of us, on us trusting each other. we never cheated on each other, it was just a result of the shit we've been put through in our past relationships and we had to learn to trust each other. i know i will never do anything wrong to her and she will never do anything wrong to me. it's all about communication and understanding where that person is coming from.

IMO

1. communication

2. trust