No matter how you look at it, you won't change someone's opinion one way or the other on this issue. For my own reasons, I choose to believe that there is a God, but I won't flame somebody else who has a different viewpoint. I know that a lot of the stories in the Bible aren't 100% factual, but they still teach a good way to live.

I definitely know the wrong way to get people to believe in God is to say that they are going to hell because they don't believe the things I believe. Even in the Bible it says that no human can truly understand all that God wants or his plans, so I don't think that any human can say that another is going to hell for whatever reason. You aren't God, you cannot know all his/her plans or decisions.