My gilfriend has a kid she did not plan for and the dad ran. I stepped up. Kids are pretty cool. Once you get past the first two years it gets a SHIT LOAD easier. I love her like she is my own. I know in the future it is going to suck with the "your not my dad" and her father being a complete retard, but that's life. If she is half as smart her mother she will realize who her real dad is after she gets done being a teenager. I am looking WAY too far into this.