s13 in a twisted way I somewhat understand what is going through your head right now because someone else close to me went through the same thing. A child is a lifelong commitment, especially the first 18 years. If there is stress in a relationship then a child is going to make it more stressful. Your relationship needs to be extremely strong without a doubt in your mind when a child is involved because there will be hard times.

What it sounds like is your relationship has been turbulent and maybe you or her feel a baby will bring you two together or make the relationship stronger.. it wont. Seriously consider what you are doing before you bring another life in this world, and be realistic about your expectations. If you ever want advice let me know.