a girl i like what should i do?

[00CelicaGT]

trust me don't be too bold, take my advice. not celicagt's lol.

talking to her friends wouldn't be a huge leap for you, going way outside your comfort zone causes you to choke and result in an even worse situation. Just be honest with her friends that you think shes pretty, and they'll think its cute and try and help you out.

my post is the best dont pay attention to LuckySC he fucks dirty girls with STD's and shit. lol j/k

but seriously when ur approaching a women not a girl a women u need to be confident and that means taking chances or being "bold" but suttle. and thats what i gave u. if u think about it how many guys will walk upto a girl they bearly know and say that "you caught my eye and i wanted to say that you're georgus" so be bold but suttle.

one thing a lot of men dont know is that women like men that are confident and aren't afraid to step out the box.

The best advice i can give u man to man is to
1. Be yourself that key
2. Be confident
3. Dont be scared to be rejected
4. If your going to ask her out do something that is different and will make her "say damn that was some sexy,brave shit!!!
5. Dont take advice from someone who makes a thread about "How to ask a girl if she got an STD (LuckySC) lol j/k

[Lucky DAWG]

my post is the best dont pay attention to LuckySC he fucks dirty girls with STD's and shit. lol j/k

but seriously when ur approaching a women not a girl a women u need to be confident and that means taking chances or being "bold" but suttle. and thats what i gave u. if u think about it how many guys will walk upto a girl they bearly know and say that "you caught my eye and i wanted to say that you're georgus" so be bold but suttle.

one thing a lot of men dont know is that women like men that are confident and aren't afraid to step out the box.

the best advice i can give u man to man it to
1. Be yourself that key
2. Be confident
3. Dont be scared to be rejected
4. If your going to ask her out do something that is different and will make her "say damn that was some sexy,brave shit!!!
5. Dont take advice from someone who makes a thread about "How to ask a girl if she got an STD (LuckySC) lol j/k

your rule #1
everything else you said contradicted it.


he is NOT some kind of macho man who is all cocky and confident.

stepping out of his boundaries so fast will only make him look like a tool and will probably result in nothing but messing up. He needs to take it slow and do it how he normally does, just needs to take action and approach her. thats it

[00CelicaGT]

ok well then he needs TRY and be confident. a lot of women want a man that is confident enough to approach them, not go to her friends because he is too scared to ask her out face to face. and in my personal opinion if he goes through her friends that may make him look like a pussy. but that just my opinion.

[quickdodge®]

ok im new to this all over again,i was married for 6 years and have been split up for about a year now. anyways i keep seeing this girl over and over.
i think she looks nice and like my type. i gather up the nerve to talk to her sometimes but someone always gets in the way. i have no idea if she is single or what,i dont care. i just want to sit down and have a conversation with her,or just be blunt and say lets go out.
i know it sounds easy but i really suck at this. my mom introduced me to my x wife,yup im that bad. what do you think i should say or do to ignite something or see if there is something more to this,ive noticed little looks and smirks from her but its always when im on my out of the gym or on my way back is she laughing? i really dig this girl for some reason,but im weak. i need some pointers.so i am turning to the ladies men on IA for help.help a fellow member out!!!

Does this girl work with you or something? Or is she at a place of business that you or her work at and you or her frequent it? If you work together, ask her, nonchalantly, to lunch one day. If not, ask if she would to join you for lunch next time you see her. If you start in that way, you can get to know more about her and find out if she really is "your type" and you could probably get a feel for if she would go out on a date in the near future. Later, QD.

[THEONE]

Does this girl work with you or something? Or is she at a place of business that you or her work at and you or her frequent it? If you work together, ask her, nonchalantly, to lunch one day. If not, ask if she would to join you for lunch next time you see her. If you start in that way, you can get to know more about her and find out if she really is "your type" and you could probably get a feel for if she would go out on a date in the near future. Later, QD.

omg, yup she does. thats the part that worries me. if i get dissed then i have to face it everyday..... oh and uhhh later bd hahaha

[LeX]

those long term relationships things are a real kicker... I can't get close to women any more. You gotta work hard and have lots of confidence.

[THEONE]

so yeah,i saw her today and was about to ask her out and as usual someone got in the way. she looked good too. she had a low cut shirt and i saw one of her many tat's running across her chest.man shes fine!!

[s13slider®]

dude just whip out your penis and be all like " does this look infected ?"
works every time i promise

[THEONE]

hell yeah! i finally go the nerve today to jump right in and do it. i did not ask her out but i did strike up a conversation that went on for 10 minutes she showed me like 10 of her many tat's good stuff by the way and keep in mind this was a get to know you type of talk it was not like a normal talk she smiled the whole time and laughed and so on.. she seems cool and i am going to ask her out in a few days,wish me luck!!hey this is a step and a big one for me.

[Stormhammer]

good luck, dont fuck it up

[SixSquared]

good stuff, but what would be a good opening line??im afraid to say something dumb,kind of like im doing now.

Ask her if she prefers it in the pink or in the stink.


Seriously though... quit being all whimpy and stuff... just go up tov her and say "Hey do you wanna grab some lunch?" (and have cash to pay for hers and yours lol...). Lunch is way more "safe" to a lot of girls than dinner is.. dinner reads as a date, lunch is more like a hangout/meet and greet type deal. So ask her to lunch, and if she says yes, there's a good chance she's gonna ask for suggestions. Look up some restaurants in the area, or if there's a place you've been meaning to try, tell her... "Well there's this new Chinese place I've been wanting to check out... I hear that an Asian guy who drives a Subaru and takes pictures molests 12 year old boys while taking your picture... his name is George... Wanna give it a go?" Something like that.. so that when she asks where you want to go, you don't do the whole "I dunno.. where do you wanna go?" Because that's a dealbreaker. If you have the cojones to ask her out, have something planned.

And tell her that tattoos make you horny. Definitely add that in conversation somewhere.

[Shawna]

i dont have a problem when i have a little liquid courage in me, but for some reason im drawing a blank. fuck im a virgin all over again.

umm thank you b/c now that I am divorced Im like I dont remember what to do or how things work lmao it sucks

but seriously just go talk to her...introduce yourself and just be honest and if youre a complete dork while doing it most girls will be flattered and think its cute

[LilMonty]

Go to the closest machine to her. Have your pants sagging so that when you are working out they fall. She would laugh really fucking hard at you and you will feel like shit, but she might like your sense of humor.

Just kidding. Be a man and talk to her. What is the worst thing she can do: Say no?

[tony]

Damn you've taken a lot of criticism in this thread, but you haven't let it get to you so thats cool. Don't feel bad about the advice thing, I'm still pretty shy myself and get real nervous when I meet new people... for some its natural and others its not. Seems like you get the situation under control but my advice would have been to be yourself and say whatever comes to mind (within reason of course)

[SpeedMonkey]

dude... i think all the previous advice is worthless........


do something different dont compliment......... just go up to her and say "hey.. my name is _______ and........ you're gonna be mine one day"... she'll give you a fucked up look then you laugh and say "im just kidding.. just wondering who you were.. whats your name?" blah blah.. talk a little and before the awkward silent moment that always come after starting a convo with a stranger say "well i'll see you around.. "...

if you see her again after that.. then give her a compliment...

im an ugly fuck face... and this always works for me... try it.

[THEONE]

well im done with this,not that anyone cares...i worked with her and talked to her more.sure she was hot but she was also fucked up,like really fucked up!!

i decided not to ask her out she is a total freak and she has a ton of issues. it goes to show you"never judge a book by its cover" and yeah she knew why i was taking an interst in her.and she blew it and she got all pissed when i left it alone and a few days later she quit... damn why couldnt she be normal!!

[.blank cd]

damn how many weeks since you posted this thread. have you at least hit it yet?

[THEONE]

damn how many weeks since you posted this thread. have you at least hit it yet?

i said i would bump it up as i progressed,and no i di not hit it and i never will even if she paid me...god im a dumb ass...i go and find me a real head case. hmmm maybe i should hit it i have her number and she does not wear panties

[.blank cd]

I'll hit it for ya and let u know how it was. where can i meet this girl at?