a girl i like what should i do?

[SLo_MKIII]

a month, dude ive been single for 11 months.im immune im a born again virgin.

dam yo how do u do that shit?

[THEONE]

if i got the nerve to ask her out,how do i explain my car? its a 89 ef set up for drags not the prettiest of cars. what do i say hop in and show her how to buckle a 5 point harness???

[Ltdnismorace]

yeah basically

[SLo_MKIII]

if i got the nerve to ask her out,how do i explain my car? its a 89 ef set up for drags not the prettiest of cars. what do i say hop in and show her how to buckle a 5 point harness???

if she is feeling u it shouldnt even matter what u drive

[Jecht]

if she is feeling u it shouldnt even matter what u drive

Lets not bring up the subject of whether the car makes a difference or not. There is an entire thread over that already.

[SLo_MKIII]

haha my bad

[GangstaCoupe]

Hire me to be your wing man... I will work on commission

[THEONE]

Lets not bring up the subject of whether the car makes a difference or not. There is an entire thread over that already.

i think a car does,maybe that is my problem. i love my ef . she drives a broken assed car i saw it,it was parked next to mine i even saw roaches in the ash tray!!!

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Tell her you are a vintage honda collector

[Jecht]

i think a car does,maybe that is my problem. i love my ef . she drives a broken assed car i saw it,it was parked next to mine i even saw roaches in the ash tray!!!

I read the ENTIRE thread about if the car matters or not, and this is what I got from it: if they turn you down because of the car, its not the kind of girl you want to spend time with anyways. If she really has an interest in you, learning to strap on a five point harness will just be something to laugh at.

[SLo_MKIII]

honestly i think ur worrying too much. whats the worst that can happen? she says she doesnt like u... i think women out number guys 4 to 1 maybe 5 by now. plenty of more single women out there dont get choked up over one u dont really know at all jus relax there is nothing to loose

[THEONE]

good point^^ should i ask her name.then aske her out boyfriend or not. to what a movie or a bar or what?

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dont ask if she has a b/f

[THEONE]

dont ask if she has a b/f

i dont care if she does. well i kind of do,given my situation. but anyway thats neither here nor there, god i feel like a freak right now. im not,i swear im sure some of you have seen or felt something like this and lacked the courage to do it.

[SLo_MKIII]

dont ask if she has a bf... jus try to keep a conversation going ask her what she like to do for fun and shit. pay her compliments non sexual ones of course. when talkin turn ur body towards her if at all possible... (kinda shows that ur really interested in what the 2 of u are talkin about)

[THEONE]

dont ask if she has a bf... jus try to keep a conversation going ask her what she like to do for fun and shit. pay her compliments non sexual ones of course. when talkin turn ur body towards her if at all possible... (kinda shows that ur really interested in what the 2 of u are talkin about)

that sounds good, should i make my pecks bounce,J/K...im takin all this in.

[00CelicaGT]

This always works for me. "I'm sorry to bother you but i've seen u here a couple of times and i just wanted to tell you that you are georgus!!! I also wanted to know if you are seeing anyone and if not i would like to take you out, if thats ok with you". if she says she's single and she'd like to go out then your in.

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i dont care if she does. well i kind of do,given my situation. but anyway thats neither here nor there, god i feel like a freak right now. im not,i swear im sure some of you have seen or felt something like this and lacked the courage to do it.

I used to be, how do i put this, afraid of girls, and the last year and post high school somethin changed. I was talkin to girls left and right. I didnt talk to many girls from my school and after highschool i would see some of the girls i was interested in and get to talkin to them and they would tell me they had a crush on me and so on. Its all about the way you carry yourself

[SLo_MKIII]

body language is a big give away because most ppl dont even realize they are doing it... might sound weird but ive taken many classes about body language.
ive forgotten a good bit of since it was dam near 4 years ago but one thing that stood out was that the way a persons legs are pointed while in a relaxed sitting postion usually point to the person that they are thinkin about even tho they may not know that person is actaully on their mind

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IBLP

[THEONE]

This always works for me. "I'm sorry to bother you but i've seen u here a couple of times and i just wanted to tell you that you are georgus!!! I also wanted to know if you are seeing anyone and if not i would like to take you out, if thats ok with you". if she says she's single and she'd like to go out then your in.

what if she says no and maybe i will see her day after day, i know im not telling you all of the details,but hey you never know who is reading. i dont wann ask and feel likea total ass adn then have it go around i asked,you know.

[Lucky DAWG]

when she walks by you working out at the gym go...

"1001, 1002, 1003
whew, that stings a bit"

[SLo_MKIII]

what if she says no and maybe i will see her day after day, i know im not telling you all of the details,but hey you never know who is reading. i dont wann ask and feel likea total ass adn then have it go around i asked,you know.

if she says no then jus be her friend u know a quick hey how u doing and go on about ur business... but it would be fucked up if she was a member on here lol

[THEONE]

when she walks by you working out at the gym go...

"1001, 1002, 1003
whew, that stings a bit"

hahhahah,maybe that would work in a real gym,but for real my job has a gym,i saw her twice up there,she came up to use the bathroom,i said hey each time but that was it. oh god im a puss im going to bed....

[Ltdnismorace]

grow a set bro, just fuckin do it, what do you have to lose?

[Lucky DAWG]

hahhahah,maybe that would work in a real gym,but for real my job has a gym,i saw her twice up there,she came up to se the bathroom,i said hey each time but that was it. oh god im a puss im going to bed....

she goes to your bathroom?

WTF?
does she have a dick???

walk away slowly man, get out while you still can or she is going to grab you and you won't be able to escape!

[mxglory258]

grow a set bro, just fuckin do it, what do you have to lose?

Agreed!!

What can she really do? say no?? Fear of failure?? Its one girl among millions homie!

[THEONE]

she goes to your bathroom?

WTF?
does she have a dick???

walk away slowly man, get out while you still can or she is going to grab you and you won't be able to escape!

oh god,no. i work in the same place as her.i work from 9-6 and she works from 4-10 i see her sometimes.and i knowa few of her friends

[Ltdnismorace]

jesus christ you guys work together and you're afraid to talk to her. YOU HAVE COMMON GROUND, you are one step ahead. Seriously, stop asking us what to do and just do something.

[SLo_MKIII]

this might seem a lil highschoolish but ur shy so try finding some stuff out through her friends

[Lucky DAWG]

oh god,no. i work in the same place as her.i work from 9-6 and she works from 4-10 i see her sometimes.and i knowa few of her friends

hmmm you know her friends eh

well theres your entry point.
this is painless if you are shy and want to avoid a direct approach, which no offense will probably result in you shooting yourself in the foot.

ask her friend to organize a dinner or night out or something with some of your guy friends from work and then her and the girls, including the one you're eyeing. then just make convo with her the whole night and ask for the digits. 2 days later call her up and ask for a hangout alone somewhere

[THEONE]

jesus christ you guys work together and you're afraid to talk to her. YOU HAVE COMMON GROUND, you are one step ahead. Seriously, stop asking us what to do and just do something.

if it were only that easy,i work in shipping she works in sales. alright dammit,tell me what to say. or do or what to look for. as far as timing and all,

[mxglory258]

this might seem a lil highschoolish but ur shy so try finding some stuff out through her friends

Yeah that worked great in something about mary!! lol..o wait..nvm haha he hired somebody! lol

Fuck it dude...let your nuts drop and get to talkin!!

[mxglory258]

if it were only that easy,i work in shipping she works in sales. alright dammit,tell me what to say. or do or what to look for. as far as timing and all,

Hello, you've caught my eye a few times, my names ........, and yours is?

Or just Hi, how ya doin..or Hi, or Hello, or even hey I was wonderin what you were doing for lunch, my day's slow today thought maybe we could meet up *if your off for her lunch* or you have lunch at the same time

[81911SC]

this might seem a lil highschoolish but ur shy so try finding some stuff out through her friends

Dont do that. Females talk. You have the common ground man, hell start a conversation about a customer or something then keep conversing and be like im sorry but you smell like sweet innocense. LMAO.

[00CelicaGT]

i think a car does,maybe that is my problem. i love my ef . she drives a broken assed car i saw it,it was parked next to mine i even saw roaches in the ash tray!!!

well then u guys have something in common already. lol but seriously try wat i gave u. it's bold but suttle at the same time. it also gets me a whole lot of :idb: and im only 20 and im not talking about 18, 19 yr. old girls. the youngest girl i've date since iv'e been out of H.S. (2 yrs.) was 22 oldest was 25 no lie. u just have to be mature and carry urself like a man. dont be afraid to be rejected cuz there areplenty of other womenout there, just be confident and honest, u cant go wrong.


good luck

[THEONE]

thank to all,import atlanta FTW. i will bump this post when i grow a set and do this or when i see her again.

[SLo_MKIII]

Hello, you've caught my eye a few times, my names ........, and yours is?

Or just Hi, how ya doin..or Hi, or Hello, or even hey I was wonderin what you were doing for lunch, my day's slow today thought maybe we could meet up *if your off for her lunch* or you have lunch at the same time

what if they wear name tags lol. then this guy is gonna look like a complete dick

[Lucky DAWG]

trust me don't be too bold, take my advice. not celicagt's lol.

talking to her friends wouldn't be a huge leap for you, going way outside your comfort zone causes you to choke and result in an even worse situation. Just be honest with her friends that you think shes pretty, and they'll think its cute and try and help you out.

[81911SC]

Just go buy Versace for men and wear it and say something to the effect of "Does this smell good?"