Jen, a few things:
a. Your boy friend sounds VERY shadey. To just up and leave like that w/o even saying bye or even coming back? I'd be pissed just with that. To not even answer his phone or better yet, to not even call and let you know where he is would piss me off even more. I'm a 31 yr old man and if my fiance pulled that, I would be irate.
b. Why do men sleep with fat, ugly girls? Well, almost any girl can have any guy that she wants. It really all depends on the situation and how desperate that the guy is as well. If he can get some from an ugly girl w/o anyone else knowing, many guys will do it and keep it on the down-low.
With that said, IF he did sleep with someone else, I shall hope that you wouldn't be stupid enough to sleep with him again. There is no telling what STD he might or might not have picked up. I'd get to the bottom of things, but definitely don't sleep with him until you know FOR SURE what happened.
Originally Posted by Ruiner
