Hmm...military ball coming up, and two chicks to choose. What would you do?

[EvasiveEF9]

Probably in the wrong section. Feel free to move.

Girl 1: Amanda. Recently started talking to her, and we've kissed and all that, and she's fun as hell. Not really my type, but hell, who really is? We have a great time together. Her intentions I think are along the same as mine. Just date. Find out if friends, or dating would be better. In the meantime, just have a good time together. Student at my school, and will be attending the military ball. Told her I had interest, but that I wasn't looking to settle as of right now. Just date, if anything. She agreed.

Girl 2: Selena. Ex girlfriend. Kinda sorta wanted get back together with her. There's a very slim chance of that. The interest is in the eyes, but we haven't kissed or anything since we've started talking again. Knows nothing about military ball unless I invite her. Relationship ended about 2 years ago, and very rocky. She later found out I'd done some stupid stuff, but also realizes I'm different than I was then. Afterall, I was only a sophomore in highschool...

Situation: Military ball is coming up for NGC. Which one to bring?

If I bring Selena, and flirt with Amanda, it'll very likely end with Selena getting a little bit pissed off at me. Seeing as I'd suddenly be a "player" Can't blame her. I've told selena i had interest in her, and would take her back if the chance ever arose. Also told her I didn't have interest in anyone else (cuz I didn't when I told her)

If I don't bring selena, I wouldn't invite Amanda as my "date," and she would probably spend most of the time with several people. Then my other ex that attends up here, I'm certain, would all come up being like "Let's dance" and I'd have to choke the bitch. Don't wanna have to do that seeing as I'm kinda friends with her kinda-dating guy or whatever, and I know he'd be envious. But I'll probably be dancing with like 4 other girls that are pretty cool and fun, but won't ever lead to more than just friends. Which is fine; I know most of their boyfriends. There's not really anyone else up here I'd wanna bring.

Forget it all, and just bring Amanda, hope for the best, and have a good time. Whatever happens happens. But being my date, more attention would probably be spent on me

No, don't ask. No matter what my situation is, I'm not looking to "get any" from either.

What would you do?

[xLSTONEx]

pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bigdare23]

fuck them both and go home!!! LOL



Chill with the one that knows about at the ball. Work on the other one on your free time!

[kelly marie]

definitly take the new girl..

if an old relationship didn't work the first time, it won't work the second, third or fourth, etc.

[VooDooXII]

pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's all it comes down to.

I'd go with Amanda.

[EvasiveEF9]

pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hmm...although I'm highly against this...SURE!

BRB

[GSRteg®]

Well if I were you I would go with Amanda bc you havent had a rocky relationship wit her and shes new. Now Selena your ex no, because it never is the same with each other again ever. But the choice is up to you man its your life.

[EvasiveEF9]

definitly take the new girl..

if an old relationship didn't work the first time, it won't work the second, third or fourth, etc.

That's why I'm not really sure why I still have hope. It's been 2.5 years, now, but I still feel something for her, and wouldn't mind another try. *shrugs* I'm jacked up? LoL

[GSRteg®]

My same point exactly!

definitly take the new girl..

if an old relationship didn't work the first time, it won't work the second, third or fourth, etc.

[HalfBaked]

I still see no pics.

[2.0civic]

PICS?

THERES A REASON YOU CHEATED ON HER THE FIRST TIME....IF I WERE YOU, I WOULDNT SAY SHIT TO THE BROAD THAT DOESNT KNOW, SEE WHAT HAPPENS WITH THE NEW GIRL AND THEN TRY TO GET WITH THE EX...DO IT LIKE THAT, EVERYONE STAYS HAPPY

IN THE MEANTIME, FUCK THEM BOTH

[bigdare23]

Shit Joker if you was like me bring both! I had two my at the military ball! One girl I promise I was going to take and another girl I was "dating" at the time. The one I was dating already knew about the other girl so she was cool with it and met me up there. My ball date was clueless. So I told her home, fuck her, took a shower, and then chilled with my girl (and also fucked her). Damn "was" such a pimp!

[bigdare23]

PICS?

THERES A REASON YOU CHEATED ON HER THE FIRST TIME....IF I WERE YOU, I WOULDNT SAY SHIT TO THE BROAD THAT DOESNT KNOW, SEE WHAT HAPPENS WITH THE NEW GIRL AND THEN TRY TO GET WITH THE EX...DO IT LIKE THAT, EVERYONE STAYS HAPPY

IN THE MEANTIME, FUCK THEM BOTH

look up^^^ repost LOL

[kelly marie]

That's why I'm not really sure why I still have hope. It's been 2.5 years, now, but I still feel something for her, and wouldn't mind another try. *shrugs* I'm jacked up? LoL

lol people change.. not trying to bring you down but the odds are against you for a relationship with her ever working.. you both have memories of why it didn't work before and that will just show it self at some point again if you start dating.. i'm just talking from my past experiences you have a better chance with the new girl! good luck

[GSRteg®]

No, bc she was clueless if she would have known she would have denied you the pussy lol.

Shit Joker if you was like me bring both! I had two my at the military ball! One girl I promise I was going to take and another girl I was "dating" at the time. The one I was dating already knew about the other girl so she was cool with it and met me up there. My ball date was clueless. So I told her home, fuck her, took a shower, and then chilled with my girl (and also fucked her). Damn "was" such a pimp!

[EvasiveEF9]

Amanda:





Selena:




Finally, the psycho ex that would probably wanna dance:

[2.0civic]

BOTH OF THEM ARE PRETTY CUTE

[bigdare23]

No, bc she was clueless if she would have known she would have denied you the pussy lol.

but I still got it

[GSRteg®]

Damn this guy is reading my mind lol no really. Yes, what he says is true youll start thinking about why you broke up then her comes the fights again.

lol people change.. not trying to bring you down but the odds are against you for a relationship with her ever working.. you both have memories of why it didn't work before and that will just show it self at some point again if you start dating.. i'm just talking from my past experiences you have a better chance with the new girl! good luck

[ShooterMcGavin]

3some ftmfw!

[bafbrian]

I agree with what has been said.

Dating and/or going after the ex-gf will cause nothing but problems. Take it from someone who has dated girls from all walks of life.

Start fresh and just remember, there is a reason why that girl is your EX-GIRLFRIEND.

[GSRteg®]

Yeah true ive done the samething, but I actually told the girl afterwords lol. Then left and fucked my girl friend lol

but I still got it

[EvasiveEF9]

Well if I were you I would go with Amanda bc you havent had a rocky relationship wit her and shes new. Now Selena your ex no, because it never is the same with each other again ever. But the choice is up to you man its your life.

Good call. Repped for thoughts.

PICS?

THERES A REASON YOU CHEATED ON HER THE FIRST TIME....IF I WERE YOU, I WOULDNT SAY SHIT TO THE BROAD THAT DOESNT KNOW, SEE WHAT HAPPENS WITH THE NEW GIRL AND THEN TRY TO GET WITH THE EX...DO IT LIKE THAT, EVERYONE STAYS HAPPY

IN THE MEANTIME, FUCK THEM BOTH

Straight up? Young and dumb. She gave everything I wanted except the sex. Didn't want the sex because I knew it would complicate things. Instead...I made things 2times as complicated by cheating...bad move!

Shit Joker if you was like me bring both! I had two my at the military ball! One girl I promise I was going to take and another girl I was "dating" at the time. The one I was dating already knew about the other girl so she was cool with it and met me up there. My ball date was clueless. So I told her home, fuck her, took a shower, and then chilled with my girl (and also fucked her). Damn "was" such a pimp!

Stupid fucking balller, I hate you.

lol people change.. not trying to bring you down but the odds are against you for a relationship with her ever working.. you both have memories of why it didn't work before and that will just show it self at some point again if you start dating.. i'm just talking from my past experiences you have a better chance with the new girl! good luck

True. Like I said, I have no idea why I still wonder and stuff. I'm not like that. Normally I say once it's done, if it doesn't get fixed in a month, it's done for good. Repped for thoughts.

[Kelly]

definitly take the new girl..

if an old relationship didn't work the first time, it won't work the second, third or fourth, etc.

Soooo not true. I know several people, including myself, that it worked after a few years of growing up.

I dunno what to tell you other than pick ONE and don't screw anyone over.

[VooDooXII]

Yea...go with Amanda.

[EvasiveEF9]

BOTH OF THEM ARE PRETTY CUTE

Amanda's got abs like no fucking other...

3some ftmfw!

Not a chance in a frozen-over hell

I agree with what has been said.

Dating and/or going after the ex-gf will cause nothing but problems. Take it from someone who has dated girls from all walks of life.

Start fresh and just remember, there is a reason why that girl is your EX-GIRLFRIEND.

Repped for thoughts. Thanks.

Soooo not true. I know several people, including myself, that it worked after a few years of growing up.

I dunno what to tell you other than pick ONE and don't screw anyone over.

Working on that...

[kelly marie]

Damn this guy is reading my mind lol no really. Yes, what he says is true youll start thinking about why you broke up then her comes the fights again.

um than you think like a chick.. kelly marie=female sorry lol

[bigdare23]

Soooo not true. I know several people, including myself, that it worked after a few years of growing up.

I dunno what to tell you other than pick ONE and don't screw anyone over.

Naw, he's still young! BOTH FTW!!!

[GSRteg®]

Yea, but man just go for Amanda and do what Usher said (Got to let it Burn) lol. Im serious man there's a reason shes your ex-girl.

[Crazy Asian]

How bout this very simple. I date Selena...and you date amanda. Well see what happens. OK!!!!!

[EvasiveEF9]

PS - I thought it was funny that the first "date" I took amanda on, we went for chinese. I sat beside Amanda, and the girl across the table is my best female friend of like 5 years. She's like a sister and has say on any girl I consider dating.

Fortune cookie read: "Stop searching forever, happiness is just next to you"

Couldn't help but laugh for the entire rest of the night. Finally at the end of the night, she asked why I'd been laughing all night at my fortune. I showed it to her.

[GSRteg®]

Sorry Kelly Marie I stand corrected! lol

um than you think like a chick.. kelly marie=female sorry lol

[EvasiveEF9]

Yea, but man just go for Amanda and do what Usher said (Got to let it Burn) lol. Im serious man there's a reason shes your ex-girl.

AIM me and send me that song. Hvaen't heard that in a LONG ass time.

[bigdare23]

PS - I thought it was funny that the first "date" I took amanda on, we went for chinese. I sat beside Amanda, and the girl across the table is my best female friend of like 5 years. She's like a sister and has say on any girl I consider dating.

Fortune cookie read: "Stop searching forever, happiness is just next to you"

Couldn't help but laugh for the entire rest of the night. Finally at the end of the night, she asked why I'd been laughing all night at my fortune. I showed it to her.

it's a sign follow the light

[kelly marie]

Soooo not true. I know several people, including myself, that it worked after a few years of growing up.

I dunno what to tell you other than pick ONE and don't screw anyone over.

hmm.. you've been lucky i guess... i've made it a rule to only get screwed over once.. then i move on.. fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me

drew and i have been together for almost a year and a half, we NEVER fight.. if he cheated on me i wouldn't be able to forgive him.. and if i could i would never forget.. i've seen it happen too many times

everyone is different

[bafbrian]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to EvasiveEF9 again.

Remind me to rep you back.

[EvasiveEF9]

it's a sign follow the light

Just don't wanna come too strong on Amanda and scare her off...

[EvasiveEF9]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to EvasiveEF9 again.

Remind me to rep you back.

Meh, it'll come around eventually.

[Kelly]

I guess cheating is different though. Killer never cheated on me, we just had our differences. I don't think I could forgive someone who cheated on me. But Evasive was the cheater so

[EvasiveEF9]

I guess cheating is different though. Killer never cheated on me, we just had our differences. I don't think I could forgive someone who cheated on me. But Evasive was the cheater so