what seperates us from women is, we dont give a fuck about petty shit....so who fucking cares what bob is doing....

personally, I would've got up and got in bob's face for turning all the lights off when he knew I was damn well in there, that's just fucking rude....if he wants to act like a little 5yr old school girl and ignore you, fine....but dont be turning shit off when you are in the room.....

man up dude, I'm sure you can make more friends.