Thanx Em I did and it doesnt say anything about who Im with personally I dont think its anybodies business who Im with b/c its just going to be a big mess again nothing against yall I just dont want this shit to start again and I thought you were going out of town but i guess i was mistaken and yea Ive been trying to find a new job b/c I lost my job and have been in a really crappy mood lately