look, heather i want 'cha boy to make it back here in one piece and breathing, if that's gods will. and if he is to be back here alive and as close to well as possible. be patient. cause the things that he's seen in this war are gonna make him behave a little differently than if he just got back from work at merrill-lynch. be patient and give him time to get his bearings back. but be there with him, if u can to let him know he has support.