1) family= the one people that will love you for who you are regardless of how good or bad things get. your still family and real families dont abandon their members.

2) friends= true friends are just like family. plus they will tell you if your fucking up. not to be negative, but to help you get on track if you fall off.

3) career. i read a quote from George Bernard Shaw saying: "life is not about finding yourself, its about creating yourself." i thought that was the most powerful statement i've been exposed to. i spent my time pursuing things for money, not what i liked. i've been in the military(that's more about the guy next to you than the money), i've been in the tech field(now that was about the money) and various other lines of work. the one thing i realized is that of all the things i've done in life. they were not for personal fulfillment, just money(i.e greed). i was asked a question by an old man a couple years ago that changed my mode of thinking. he asked me "if you could do anything for free and be happy what would you do?" i thought over that for a while till it hit me,literally, it was a chevy dually on I-85. i got out looked at the car (which was crumpled) and there was the light bulb. so at the end of august i'm going to houston to pursue auto collision and refinishing/ high performance engines. i realized if i had the knowledge and the tools i'd rather spend all my days in my garage making my car into what i see in my head. i've never looked at things just from what they are now, if i see a stock car truck motorcycle, i get a complete picture in my head of what it can look like, done tastefully. now i just gotta get the knowledge and tools to make it happen.

4) spouse= that's the person that your with not just for physical reasons, but there is supposed to be a connection to your souls. this person is very important. they are strong when your weak, they dry your eyes when you cry. they find it actually finny when they hear your jokes, because they understand your sense of humor. and they are just like #1 &#2. very important.

5) dreams and goals are tied to career mostly. important.
6) self motivation is what makes us move. it the people in the world werent motivated we'd die. simply cause if your not motivated, hunger wouldnt motivate you to find some food. or even get it from the fridge.