Beleive me, in all seriousness, i know EXACTLY how you feel. My fathers side of the family is HUGE (my grandparents had 12 kids...) and when my grandpa ded in 94, things got strained and when my grandma died my junior year of high school, out of ALL my relatives, i talk to maybe 12 of them total since then. I havent seen or talked to 90% of them since my grandma died.

Its weird how one person can pretty much hold an entire family together