In a serious answer Ive always had that question and damn the conversations Ive had about it. However on my god fathers birthday he had his little speech thing to all his friends (about 150) who flew from all over the country and a few out of the country to come to a huge 60th birthday party. He goes on about alot and kinda made a final quote or saying if you will. But what truely matters in life is the relationships you have with people because only that gives your mind to let go rather that be after something. Not competing just doing.
/deep thoughts lol