then you will most likely attract the guys who don't care what you look like, they only want you to fulfill your "promise not to disappoint". just saying, no guy talks to a girl and agrees to meet her sight unseen... thats the reason the bailout phone call is just a text message away.
please refrain from using the word... spanking. it offends some of the n00bs around here. but srsly.. enjoy your stay. and good luck with your... "hunt for the lonely guy on ia"
