Well...i fixed my problems, cleaned out my intake manifold, got a new intake filter, tighten the bolts, changed my oil ( even though i didn't have too, maybe i got bad oik?) and let the gas run out and i got octane and put some octane boost in it, my car is idling perfect, one thing i did notice last night before i did all this, i was just about out of gas and my car started idling fine, then didn;t sometimes, now it seems fine...so it may have been the gas who knows.....so i hope this has helped anyone who had this problem too ( also refer to the link instun nooduh posted, that helped too)