i think ive found the issue in the valve cover was some old RTV that and gotten rock hard and about the size of a BB. i removed it and reinstalled the gasket. the piece of RTV was right around where i found the oil leak. i also fixed the CeL a friend that was here helping me wired it all up eing he had done it before i trusted him and when i checked everything i found the Vtec plug was in the ECT slot i switched the two around and got rid of the light. thank you guys for all the help so far.