alright, i just did a compression test, i got cyl1 200 cyl2 204 cyl 3 201 cyl4 204, double checked the gapping on the sparkplugs that was good, replaced the wires, the only thing i can think of it being now is the dizzy or the injector for the misfire
im going to push for injector swap it with cyl 2 and see what happens.