ok guys i was driving ( gma style) down the road to my friends house (30 minutes away ) and my car was running like a dream .. shifting smooth and effortlessly !!!! .. i went to turn down the road he lives on and noticed that it was so hard to put it in gear but i express ( still does not grind !) but was so HARD to put it in 2nd , 4th , reverse .... 1st 3rd and 5th are still smooth changing but it takes almost all my arm muscle to put it in 2nd 4th and reverse .. and once its in the gear the car will drive still and wont grind or anything ... no noises from tranny either ..... NOTHING ... i dont know where to go from here cause it aint synchro's and it aint the gears ..... so WTH ??????????????? why is it so hard to put into gears ? shift fork broke maybe ? shifting rod broke ?>? give me some opinions please ./