So I pull the lever back to turn the headlights on and all the parking lights/rear lights/tag lights come on but the headlights/fog lights do not come on.

I tried to turn the fog lights off and still no headlights. I checked all the fuses related to the headlights (1,2,13,14) and they are all fine.

BUT, if I have the lever pulled out for the headlights to be on the and I flash the brights all four headlights come on. If the headlights lever is pushed in and I flash the brights only the high beams come on (which is normal, i think).

Any ideas?
Thanks,
Jeff
PS This is on my 1990 Problematic 325i