Meh, sorry a stereotype of a fan had to ruin a band for you. I can understand it though. When you hear a douche bag incessantly praise something, it's easy to hate.
I'm a pretty big Dave Matthews fan (granted I like their old stuff better) and neither am I queer or a frat boy. It's actually kind of funny because like you, I listen to all kinds of music, but hardcore/metal (sorry for the terminology confusion earlier) or basically anything with undecipherable screaming and excessive double bass pedal is completely lost on me.
But whatever, to each their own. I was just curious what your reasons were.
