Between your secret stash of gay, male porn that you try to share with me and now the song dedications and thinking of me when you hear certain songs, you're not really solidifying yourself as a normal, stand up member of this particular online community. But being the helpful (straight) guy that I am, I did a little research and found a site, complete with forum, that might be suitable to your atmosphere.
Just Us Boys is a site that caters to the whims and escapades that your type longs for. Emjoy and check back here and fill us in on how it goes over there. Later, QD.