Had the idea to check the main relay from a haynes manual and checked it last night and it seems to have solved my problem.

And also the "dizzy clicking" and "pulsing lights" don't seem to happen unless the main relay problem occurs.

Still checking it though. so soldering it will fix the problem? Any pictures or anything on how to and what not? My bro is good with wiring and that lot...

Or better yet any places I could buy a brand new one for cheap? Looked around the internet and autoparts stores and had no luck really... Starting to wonder if its a dealer item.

Thanks for the responses I need this car fixed.
I about jumped for joy having a reliable car again.