In EF's, the main relay is a VERY frequent thing to go dead. It's like 40$ or so up at autozone, and your symptoms seem to be pointing in that direction. Keep a quiet and close ear to your fuel pump to see if it's turning on or not when you turn the key to the on position, but before the start position. Likely, it's that.

When replacing it, it's kind of a b*tch to get to, but it's located in your driver's side, left foot kick-panel behind the hood realease. It's a brown (usually) box of about 2"x2"