ok with some resurch I found that I can use the 86-89 2.0L accord clutch disk with my 90 flywheel and pressure plate. Its 212MM(90 clutch is the same) and 21 spline(88 transmission is the same).
Go to pullapart in Norcross. Has tons of 3gen Accords. If, I still had it I would have sold ya the one on my parts car...but its been gone for a long time.