hmmm, there really a such thing called the honda-tech discount? lol the sounds so gay.
There's really not a good way to get a decent ride and good handling from anything cheap.
The best way to go by far is Koni yellows and Ground Controls. Another option would be the package from shox.com with Konis and H&R springs.
Generally, the biggest problem you'll run into is that the damper isn't well matched to the stiffness of the spring. That leads to the car being bouncy.