UPDATE:
so, im in a vw rabbit rental i love it. adjuster came out and claimed 2k on the front and rear bumpers and a side panel. also i bought my wheels online and im pretty sure they are discontinued so...he said they will probably cut me a check for the wheels/tires and i can go shopping. car is gonna be taken to mechanic shop this week/weekend for the mechanic issues to be estimated. car is 90% likely to NOT BE TOTALED : )