first of it sucks what happened to the car and u should get a lawyer and sue that bitch for everything she has..lol. seriously.

second if u do decide to fix it make sure that u have a very reputable shop fix the core(radiator) support. cause if u go with some second hand shit it will never line up. i know, theres about a 1" gap between my front bumper cover and my fender... sucks ...

good luck and hopefully they dont total it out cuz it looks pretty clean...