Quote Originally Posted by XterraChic
lol this thread was intended for peoples opinions.. not to point out where you thing im wrong.. so thank you wayner and baby j..

i bet none of you have had to give a child up for adoption.. and i havent either.. i have never been pregnant.. and i would keep the child if i became preggo.. however if you are a crack head that gets pregnant please tell me how in the heck you would be able to care for a child? why not go to an agency that INTERVIEWS potential parents and actually goes to the home and observes the lifestyle of the applicants.. yall we are not stuck in 1970's where any bob, joe or nancy can adopt a child.. its a process.. months and months go into seeking the perfect family for each child (in most cases) yea who knows.. something could happen and it not be a good family.. but IMO if i were addicted to any form of drugs.. or what have you and i delievered a child knowing i couldnt care for it i would want it to go to a good home.. where it was almost guarenteed a warm place to sleep and at least 3 meals a day..

i hate knowing there are children stuck in foster homes.. that kills me.. no child should ever have to be put through that.. but if you know damn good and well that you can not provide for that child the best way you can.. then please for the love of god.. give them a chance at a better life..
here is what i still don't understand you want to voice your opinions of pro life on others to follow yet you turn your back on children rotting in orphanages i don't get how you can point a finger like your out to save their world yet look the other way.

many people who make these statements have never had to face the downsides of having a child. its easy to say hey just put your life at risk for a life you don't want... that would be playing russian roulette w/ your life. having to deal w/ giving up a child and/or meeting a child you gave up is just as hard. i can't see where people can try to decide for others whats best for them w/o walking a day in there shoes.